@daniyaaq
Yeah me too having a big baby scares me.
@Katiedw21
Oh gosh I hate that too.
Who are they too say 'oh this best be the last,
Not them bringing them up and not there bodies.
People can be so rude.
6 and 7 and even 8 kids are not that much when u get the likes of the Radfords with 22 kids and the Duggers with 19 kids..
This is my 6th. I never thought I wud have this many. I always said I wud only have 2.
I had 2 with my ex but then we broke up and I then met my now husband.
I had my first 2 at age 23 and 26 and met hubby when I was 29.
Wasn't planning on having any kids and then at Christmas we were in the supermarket shopping and I was going down the list and I see baby.
Confused I looked at my now husband and he was grinning at me.
So we just decided to to go for it.
We got pregnant quickly but had a miscarriage. Then 3 months later I was pregnant again with our now 10 year old son.
Ds was 15 months old when I discovered I was pregnant again with DD. She was a surprise baby.
I felt done after her because I had a traumatic birth and wasn't broody at all for 5 or 6 years. I was just content.
Then she turned 7 and I was so broody so we ttc and fell with our youngest son who is now almost 21 months old.
Now he was supposed to be the last.
I was 39 and was like right after this one no more.
But I new deep down I didn't want my pregnancy days to be over for good.
When he was 3 weeks old I suffered depression and was really missing having a bump etc so we agreed to try again.
And here we are.
Took 11 cycles and 4 chemicals but got there in the end.
I do feel content with this one being my last but I can't say for sure that this will by my last.
I see these womon having babies at 44 and 45 and that gets me thinking hmmmm maybe I may get a chance to have just one more.
I'm not planning on going on any birth control but will definitely be being very carfull for at least 9 10 months and then after that if a woopsie happened I wudnt be disappointed.
If I have another traumatic birth tho then I definitely won't have any more.
I am hoping when I have this one I will just feel done.
But we shall see hehe.
@playgirl666
Ure like me hon. I'm being induced at 37 to 38 weeks. My consultant said he doesn't want me going to 38 weeks but wud like to get me as near to it as possible.
But if I develop ICP or pre eclampsia again it mite be earlier.
But as it stands my induction date cud be the 4th 5th 6th 7th 8th or 9th at a push the 10th September.
I turn 37 week on September 4th and 38 weeks on September 11th.
He wants to see how all my growth scans go first tho.
Ladies oh my goodness.
So I went from not feeling movements untill 19 weeks, to now being used as a punch and kick bag.
The kicks are strong now and u can see my belly moving.
My bladder seems to be his favourite play thing esp when it's full hahahaha.
I swear he's having a right old party in there