Cheers Saph....I have a feeling there maybe huge arguments though....
It's my Nanas brother. His Wife & Kids hadn't seen him years (Wife lived down the road from the Home, kids live in Aus) yet me & Nana use to go every week to see him in the Home. When he took a downturn & went into Hospital, my Nana went everyday to hold his hand. My dad emailed the son to say the hospital had put him on 'end of life' care, the Son rang the hospital & told them not to tell my nana anything as they were next of kin....when he died, his Wife put a bit in the newspaper saying "we miss you, from loving wife, loving kids etc" Never mentioned my nana at all. He had been in Hospital 3 weeks before he died, his Wife was visiting the kids in Aus & she never came bk to UK until he died.