Sam86
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Things are never simple are they!!!!
A while back me and my OH got into a bit of a 'arguement' about when we would start trying for a baby.
He was adament that we wouldn't be trying for a good few years and I basically told him that if we wanted such different things then we shouldn't be together. I didn't mean it, I was just be mean
Anyway, after not talking for a few hours, he said that when we move into our new place next June, if he gets a decent job after Uni finishes in May, then MAYBE we could try. But only if we're married - which is why we are now getting married in April.
But now whenever i bring it up, or he looks at my tickers on this site, he's always like.. "Oh well, THATS wrong. You have problems! We won't be tryin for a baby THAT soon. Maybe in another few years!"
I'm so fed up! He knows i have plans to go back to college for my A levels in a few years and then go to Uni but i want to have kids before i do that otherwise i'm gonna be 30 before i get pregnant and then i wont be able to apply for the job i want when we have a newborn to look after.
I understand his point of view, he's only 20 and i'm 22, but this is really want i want to do..its just not want he wants to do.
Am i fighting a losing battle here or what?
Anyone else in a similar situation?
xxx
A while back me and my OH got into a bit of a 'arguement' about when we would start trying for a baby.
He was adament that we wouldn't be trying for a good few years and I basically told him that if we wanted such different things then we shouldn't be together. I didn't mean it, I was just be mean
Anyway, after not talking for a few hours, he said that when we move into our new place next June, if he gets a decent job after Uni finishes in May, then MAYBE we could try. But only if we're married - which is why we are now getting married in April.
But now whenever i bring it up, or he looks at my tickers on this site, he's always like.. "Oh well, THATS wrong. You have problems! We won't be tryin for a baby THAT soon. Maybe in another few years!"
I'm so fed up! He knows i have plans to go back to college for my A levels in a few years and then go to Uni but i want to have kids before i do that otherwise i'm gonna be 30 before i get pregnant and then i wont be able to apply for the job i want when we have a newborn to look after.
I understand his point of view, he's only 20 and i'm 22, but this is really want i want to do..its just not want he wants to do.
Am i fighting a losing battle here or what?
Anyone else in a similar situation?
xxx