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we both decided to start to TTC last month and it took us 9 months with Dd1 so we really didnt expect to get pregnant first month...but we did and im over the moon but he doesnt seem to be..
we both love DD1 very much and she is now 2.5 and would love a brother/ sister..
OH says he feels guilty that she wont get all the attention off everyone now etc..
when i picked up a cute baby grown the other day he said no put it back down lets buy madison something...dd1 ..he said he felt guilty the minute i picked it up!!
i wanted this pregnancy to be just as exciting as the first and I too was worried about having another due too dd1 but i know she will always be my baby and i will them both the same.. and treat them the same too!!
but OH just does not get it!!
i mentioned it to him and he has made a little bit more effort but i feel its just put on now
anyone else in similar experience
we both love DD1 very much and she is now 2.5 and would love a brother/ sister..
OH says he feels guilty that she wont get all the attention off everyone now etc..
when i picked up a cute baby grown the other day he said no put it back down lets buy madison something...dd1 ..he said he felt guilty the minute i picked it up!!
i wanted this pregnancy to be just as exciting as the first and I too was worried about having another due too dd1 but i know she will always be my baby and i will them both the same.. and treat them the same too!!
but OH just does not get it!!
i mentioned it to him and he has made a little bit more effort but i feel its just put on now
anyone else in similar experience