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maddiwatts19
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sorry girls, but i really need a rant!!
its 03.30 am and i am wide awake!! why? because some little cockshite has been pissing around with the firealarms and now they are going off every half an hour!!!
i'm at uni, and just for now living in halls because mine and OH's flat has to be cleaned and decorated and this just seemed easier untill its done so i dont get the stress haha!! yeh right.
well firemen turned up and said that someone had deliberately set off the fire alarm, and now police have turned up and the fire alarm keeps going off!! i'm stupidly annoyed now!!
also, i had a huge argument with OH. he stays here some nights and some nights at our flat. tonight he's staying at the flat. anyway, he was talking to a girl on facebook who is his ex. me and him have talked about her, and he always tells me what a bitch she is and how she was horrible to him and all this, but as soon as i say even the slightest thing bad about her, i get shouted at!! i told him i wasnt comfortable with him talking to her because she refuses to talk to him if i'm there or if he talks about me, she just ignors him. and he turned round and just said that i think everythings about me and all this! so i put the phone down and he hasnt spoken to me since, which has hurt too.. i wasnt trying to make out that its all about me, i was simply saying that i didnt like her and her attitude towards me!!
none of this is helped by the fact that a few weeks ago when we were talking about school days, he said that if her best friend hadnt have spread shit about him and her, they would still be together.. i just broke down in tears at that, but he didnt seem to get why i was upset, so i just left it! eugh he can be so hurtful, stupid and annoying!!
i love him so much, but he can hurt me so badly too..
if i'm over reacting girls, please just tell me..
i've always been so self consious in our relationship. i'm a big girl, and i know he can do better, get someone prettier and thinner, so i tread on egg-shells because i dont want him to leave me. it isnt his fault i'm like this, my ex used to mentally, and sometimes physically abuse me. he always told me i was fat, ugly and useless, and after three years of fear i began to believe him. Rob (my OH) has really started to rebuild my confidence in myself, but when he does something like this, it plays on my mind, i dunno if i push him away before he can leave or hurt me.i just dont know..
so is it just me and my hormones over reacting or am i right to be upset??? i'm just so confused!
anyway, i think they've finally stopped the alarms going off, so i really should try and get some sleep before i collapse..
thank you for reading, i'm so sorry if it doesnt make any sense, being half asleep and pissed off really doesnt help!
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its 03.30 am and i am wide awake!! why? because some little cockshite has been pissing around with the firealarms and now they are going off every half an hour!!!
i'm at uni, and just for now living in halls because mine and OH's flat has to be cleaned and decorated and this just seemed easier untill its done so i dont get the stress haha!! yeh right.
well firemen turned up and said that someone had deliberately set off the fire alarm, and now police have turned up and the fire alarm keeps going off!! i'm stupidly annoyed now!!
also, i had a huge argument with OH. he stays here some nights and some nights at our flat. tonight he's staying at the flat. anyway, he was talking to a girl on facebook who is his ex. me and him have talked about her, and he always tells me what a bitch she is and how she was horrible to him and all this, but as soon as i say even the slightest thing bad about her, i get shouted at!! i told him i wasnt comfortable with him talking to her because she refuses to talk to him if i'm there or if he talks about me, she just ignors him. and he turned round and just said that i think everythings about me and all this! so i put the phone down and he hasnt spoken to me since, which has hurt too.. i wasnt trying to make out that its all about me, i was simply saying that i didnt like her and her attitude towards me!!
none of this is helped by the fact that a few weeks ago when we were talking about school days, he said that if her best friend hadnt have spread shit about him and her, they would still be together.. i just broke down in tears at that, but he didnt seem to get why i was upset, so i just left it! eugh he can be so hurtful, stupid and annoying!!
i love him so much, but he can hurt me so badly too..
if i'm over reacting girls, please just tell me..
i've always been so self consious in our relationship. i'm a big girl, and i know he can do better, get someone prettier and thinner, so i tread on egg-shells because i dont want him to leave me. it isnt his fault i'm like this, my ex used to mentally, and sometimes physically abuse me. he always told me i was fat, ugly and useless, and after three years of fear i began to believe him. Rob (my OH) has really started to rebuild my confidence in myself, but when he does something like this, it plays on my mind, i dunno if i push him away before he can leave or hurt me.i just dont know..
so is it just me and my hormones over reacting or am i right to be upset??? i'm just so confused!
anyway, i think they've finally stopped the alarms going off, so i really should try and get some sleep before i collapse..
thank you for reading, i'm so sorry if it doesnt make any sense, being half asleep and pissed off really doesnt help!
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