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Ok... bit off the 2nd trimester topic... but had to post this...
I got an email from my Mom earlier today, she saw a couple pics a friend of mine has on her photography Facebook site of me. She asked if I knew those pics were on there (which I did) and said she was a bit shocked to see them... that they were beautiful, but a bit erotic for public consumption....
UM... first, I don't show ANYTHING risky... there is one pic where I am laying down and looking up at the camera, and you see a touch of my butt- but it's black and white AND I have full coverage undies on! In another I have my hands in my hair and looking at the camera- but I have a little tank on- so you see NOTHING.
My friend posted them- along with some other girls she knows- to show she does some more "sexy" one on one shoots for ladies. But again, it's not X rated- at the worst, it's maybe PG-13????
I started to feel bad honestly... like was there something wrong with me looking sorta sexy but being a mom, step-mom and being prego!? Mind you these pics were taken like 3yrs ago!!! I did take some more risky pics- but those were for me and hubbies eyes ONLY!! lol.
I LOVE my mom- she's the best, but she is very against women being seen as sex objects in ANY way- so I'm sure that protective mode just kicked in being that I'm her only daughter... lol.
Personally, I don't see anything wrong with the pics- if I felt at all they were inappropriate, I would have asked my friend to take them down. Period. She even offered to do that today when we chatted... but why? They aren't bad? Shoot- I've seen WAY worse that people have posted of themselves on their own FB page!!!!!
I don't know... just kinda got to me. Thoughts? You can be honest... not mean, lol, but honest is fine.
Thanks ladies!!!
I got an email from my Mom earlier today, she saw a couple pics a friend of mine has on her photography Facebook site of me. She asked if I knew those pics were on there (which I did) and said she was a bit shocked to see them... that they were beautiful, but a bit erotic for public consumption....
UM... first, I don't show ANYTHING risky... there is one pic where I am laying down and looking up at the camera, and you see a touch of my butt- but it's black and white AND I have full coverage undies on! In another I have my hands in my hair and looking at the camera- but I have a little tank on- so you see NOTHING.
My friend posted them- along with some other girls she knows- to show she does some more "sexy" one on one shoots for ladies. But again, it's not X rated- at the worst, it's maybe PG-13????
I started to feel bad honestly... like was there something wrong with me looking sorta sexy but being a mom, step-mom and being prego!? Mind you these pics were taken like 3yrs ago!!! I did take some more risky pics- but those were for me and hubbies eyes ONLY!! lol.
I LOVE my mom- she's the best, but she is very against women being seen as sex objects in ANY way- so I'm sure that protective mode just kicked in being that I'm her only daughter... lol.
Personally, I don't see anything wrong with the pics- if I felt at all they were inappropriate, I would have asked my friend to take them down. Period. She even offered to do that today when we chatted... but why? They aren't bad? Shoot- I've seen WAY worse that people have posted of themselves on their own FB page!!!!!
I don't know... just kinda got to me. Thoughts? You can be honest... not mean, lol, but honest is fine.
Thanks ladies!!!