One Tubers

[mlyn26]

Hope all ok ladies. I have decided to try this month, was 3 months since my ectopic surgery tomorrow and i am able to try again, should be ovulating in approx 7 days. Was wondering, how likely in honesty do you all think that egg from tubeless side can travel across and down remaining tube? x

 

[onewish]

Hope all ok ladies. I have decided to try this month, was 3 months since my ectopic surgery tomorrow and i am able to try again, should be ovulating in approx 7 days. Was wondering, how likely in honesty do you all think that egg from tubeless side can travel across and down remaining tube? x

hey, i was wondering this question today but cant decided if it can or not hope someone knows the answer. x

 

[Shell'sAngels]

Hi ladies
Thought id let you know we are TEAM BLUE!! again lol i must be making a footie team x

 

[puppymom32]

Congrats Shells

 

[puppymom32]

Hope all ok ladies. I have decided to try this month, was 3 months since my ectopic surgery tomorrow and i am able to try again, should be ovulating in approx 7 days. Was wondering, how likely in honesty do you all think that egg from tubeless side can travel across and down remaining tube? x

They say it can but I dont really believe that it happens that much. Just seems like a lot of extra work.

 

[4magpies]

Morning girls, trying out my preseed tonight.

I ov'd from my left side last month and didnt get lucky.

I am hoping to ov from my right side this month and get very lucky indeed!!

xxx

 

[onewish]

morning everyone well im back from my appointment to decide whats next and guess what i get there surprise surprise she is not there AGAIN! I really have given up with ever seeing her, so anyway one of her people have seen me and we went through it all again from the eptopic onwards till now, i asked a few questions ie whats wrong with me can you tell me because everyone as send something different she sed i have not got psod or endrometrios again the word used is its just "unexplained" infertility i sed what about the fact im not ovulating she sed i am, so i sed but you told me i wasnt and put me on clomid aparantly that was to up my eggs because of only one tube so alot stuff has been total news to me today. it was not a nice apointment there was the doctor i was talking to, a nurse but also a guy sat in wearing in a shirt and tie making notes which really unsettled me im not sure if he was to do with the decision she was making of what to do but anyway to the good bit SHE HAS DECIDED TO PUT ME FORWARD FOR IVF! we have filled in the form and signed the dotted line she sed all she has to do is run it by my actual specialist to check its ok with her and then she will send it off and i wait to hear from them but iv no idea how long that will be so its just a waiting game now. x x hey 4magpies when you starting your opks? am i right in thinking i shud start begining of next week? x x

 

[caz & bob]

:wave: ladies how are you all hope your all well shells yay for team blue hun xxxxx

 

[milosmum]

Congratulations Shells - lovely news about your football team!

Onewish - sounds like you are making progress with your fertility specialist.

Hope everyone else is well xxx

 

[puppymom32]

Onewish,
Yay for moving on to ivf. Hope the wait isnt long. Sorry the Dr wasnt there how rude is that.

 

[jessica716]

Just thought i'd update, been having a few niggly pains in left side and shoulders.... Panic mode!

Rang doctors who wouldnt see me unless i was bleeding.. Rang EPU who got me in for bloods this morning... Hcg above 3000 and offered to try and scan me.....

And there was a tiny iccle blobby soon to be bean.... Not in the tube this time but in the right place!
Got a 6 week scan next week and hopefully blob will start to be more baby like and be a sticky bean!!
FX!!

 

[mlyn26]

Phew, what a relief, congrats x

 

[puppymom32]

Thats awesome news Jessica!!!

 

[jessica716]

Thats awesome news Jessica!!!

Yeah, just hope its a sticky one!
Took your advice when you said about them not leaving me for another 2 weeks esp when i started havin pains... My doctors are useless though!
So went straight to epu, theyve been great about it and couldnt believe my doctors wouldnt see me!
Xx

 

[4magpies]

Congrats Jess! Bet that is a weight off your shoulders!

xxx

 

[caz & bob]

:wave: ladies hope your all well im having a day off the gym today just chilling i have got strong o pain today had it a bit yesterday yay jess glad hunnie xxxxxxxxxxx

 

[jessica716]

Congrats Jess! Bet that is a weight off your shoulders!

xxx

Definatley!! got another scan next friday and they've said by then there is the possibility the little blobby might be developed enough to detect a heartbeat...

 

[Shell'sAngels]

Hi everyone!!!

wicked new Jessica!!

Onewish thats great they have put you foward for ivf!

thanks everyone for your well wishes.... my boys are so made up there getting another brother, my oldest said to me from the start it was a boy and he was right! everyone else thought a girl.... trouble is now my hubby is getting greedy and wants to put the er 'snip' off - he wanted a girl bless him no girls down his family! a healthy baby is all that matters! im very lucky xxx

 

[puppymom32]

Thats awesome news Jessica!!!

Yeah, just hope its a sticky one!
Took your advice when you said about them not leaving me for another 2 weeks esp when i started havin pains... My doctors are useless though!
So went straight to epu, theyve been great about it and couldnt believe my doctors wouldnt see me!
Xx

Trust me I know you have to stay on them. I really cant believe they wouldnt be a little more proactive with your history. So glad the EPU was much more concerned.

 

[Cupcake1979]

Hello ladies,

Thought I'd drop by. Sorry I haven't been on much since the miscarriage - have been lurking but just didn't feel like joining in

Congrats Jessica - thats one speedy BFP - well done.

Lovely news shell's - a boy

Milos - how you getting on chasing that eggy - hope to see a bfp from you soon hun.

Amy - good to see you're still being positive

Mlyn - Good luck for your first month trying after your ectopic - fingers crossed you catch the egg this month.

In terms of me... I'm coming up to 3 weeks since I had the medical management of my missed miscarriage. Took a pregnancy test the other day which still had a very faint line - like the ones you get around 8dpo. Am hoping by monday the tests show negative, otherwise I have to go back to EPU to be rescanned to check for retained product. But I have a feeling all has come away and my spotting now is so much lighter. Should be colourless very soon methinks. I also had a +OPK for 3 days from Sunday through to Tuesday so wondering whether I'm ovulating? First + test came on CD14 (from the first day of bleeding of the miscarriage). As of today I have enlarged and sore boobs (they usually kick in right after the egg has popped. Strangely though I don't have major OV pain - just slight niggles but on both sides. Usually when its my tubeless right side I have dull aching from OV to AF - whereas I get no pain from my tube left side so I'm thinking I've missed the boat this month.

Didn't want to try this soon anyway - want to wait to af comes back so I know where we are with dates as don't want to go through stressing about scans not showing progress then casting doubt on my dates etc...

Life can be mean - as all you ladies have experienced. For me an ectopic in May followed by a blighted ovum in September is just about the worst luck I have ever had in my life. At least I know my left tube is working ok. And have to think surely next time I get pregnant it will all be ok? I'm not sure I'll hold my breath!

Another thing I won't do next time is waste loads of money doing test after test every day to make sure lines getting darker. With the blighted ovum all was on track, normal doubling HCG levels, at early scan I had the gestational sac and was positive all would be ok, only to go back at 6+2 will still an empty sac...! Oh well. I feel as if I've moved on. Just have to get back onto the TTC bandwagon and hope I am blessed with a healthy BFP before Xmas. The baby I lost through ectopic would have been due on 22.12.10 - so I hope I have a lovely BFP to celebrate.

I'm off to Centre Parcs again on Monday till Friday and then home for a week and then off to the Algarve on the Saturday for a few days. Felt I needed some time out as I haven't been able to tell work about the MC so had to go straight back after the medical management on the Sunday.

Sorry for droning on ladies.

Good to catch up and I'll stop by more often for regular updates.

Love to all, Lucy x