One Tubers

[Bubsylooloos]

Hi ladies,

Been a while since I've been on here. Been on holiday and trying to set up my own business so been pretty busy... Not to busy to stop trying though!
When we returned from holiday we agreed to start getting help through the fertility clinic. So we've done the usual, hubby has done his sperm test, all came back fine, I had my bloods yesterday, had my ultrasound scan and am booked in for my HSG next Monday, I have had this before but am pretty scared!

When I had my ectopic last year they told me there was signs of an old infection... Me and hubby put it down the the HSG as previous to the first one I'd had 3 years ago I'd had my little girl with no problems. Now we are going through it all again the fertility doctor has assured me that the scaring has nothing to do with the HSG and could I fact be Chlamidya... I am mortified to say the least!! My husband and I are very trustworthy and loyal towards each other and trust each other dearly so, if this is the case this infection has been with me for at least 8 years!!

Has anyone else been told their ectopic could have been caused because of this? And for the record I'm not to sort of woman to sleep around either which makes me even more shocked !!

I feel sick to the stomach I really do

 

[4magpies]

There's such a thing as hidden chamydia I think it's called. Some fertility clinics test for it.

I got my PID after my first MC due to my ex giving my chylmidia. He was cheating on me.

That's why my tubes are damaged. Hope that helps.

 

[mamadonna]

I was also tested for it,it was neg which I knew it would be,really sorry you are having to go through all of this

 

[Mommy2be20]

Bubsy, were you tested for chlymdia or did your specialist just assume? They say it can cause ectopics, but I would think 8 years of the infection would cause so many more problems and symptoms. Hopefully all of your testing went well

And huge congrats Becca!

 

[Bubsylooloos]

I was tested and got my results yesterday and was negative thank god! When I had my op last year they said there was the sign of an old infection that looked like Chlamidya, she advised me to get tested to put my mind at rest and to rule it out. Now I know it's not a STD I'm wondering what the old infection is... Could it have been from the HSG X-ray as they say that can cause infection... Who knows but I'm back at the fertility clinic in a week so may find out more xx

 

[Bubsylooloos]

Hi Ladies,

Hope you are all doing well? I have my appointment at the fertility clinic on Tuesday afternoon. I know she is going to want to start me off on Clomid, I am a bit unsure as to why. I understand it will help me ovulate but it won't help if I ovulate on the wrong side. As far as I am aware my fertility problems are to do with only having one tube not to do with my ovulation so I am trying to work out if it is going to be a massive waste of my time?

I am just fed up of wasting time, we have spent 6 years trying and I am done with false hope. I just want to do something that is going to give me a better chance.

Anyone on here have a success story of climid and one tube?

Love to you all xxx

 

[Tasha16]

Hey Ladies I'm just checking in to say I hope ur all ok. All is well my end absolutely loving being a mummy but gutted I'm back at work in February �� xx

 

[mamadonna]

Hi hun,your little man is gorgeous!!!
All well here apart from being loaded with cold and no bfp yet!!

I hope February takes ages to get here!!

 

[4magpies]

Ahh Tasha a bet you don't want to go back. I'm taking the full 12 months as I'll only get to do it once. We will never be able to have another one.

Hope you're ok mamadonna

xxx

 

[mamadonna]

Yeah I'm fine,I'm gonna give myself till April then I'm done!!(that'll take me up till the 4 years)

I've been thinking about it for a little while and this I the first I've actually typed it down,its actually helped make my mind up even more!!

And wow I can't believe you're 17 wks already!!when's the bump pics gonna start??

 

[4magpies]

I update them in my journal weekly.

Here's this weeks;

https://imageshack.com/a/img440/63/ktjc.jpg

And this is my favourite one so far;

https://imageshack.com/a/img4/2794/gci3.jpg

 

[mamadonna]

Ah wow haven't you got a lovely bump!!it's a fair size too lol!!

 

[4magpies]

Pretty sure I'm gonna be huge like! It's big now even when I'm led on my back!!

xx

 

[Mommy2be20]

Hope everyone's well

 

[Tasha16]

Aww I hope it happens for you soon Donna.

Becca u have a lovely bump I see ur having a girl, congratulations. I wish I could of took the full 12 months off �� xx

 

[Tasha16]

Also Becca r u on Facebook? Xx

 

[puppymom32]

Hey ladies hope everyone is well!!!

 

[Bubsylooloos]

Hi ladies, hope you are all doing well?
I've not posted on here in a while but I have been looking to see how you are all getting on.
I just wanted to let you know that my husband and I have decided to go down the IVF route! It's not something we have taken lightly, we have been thinking about it for a while now and booked an appointment with a fertility nurse a couple of weeks ago at a private hospital to discuss the procedure. We have our consultation with the doctor tomorrow. I'm really scared but also excited, I don't want to get too excited because I know it doesn't always work. She seemed quite positive because we are both young and because the 2 times I have fallen pregnant one was fine but the other was ectopic, the fact I've not miscarried says it may just be the falling pregnant I am struggling with. She also said there is a possibility of twins... I would love that!!

Anyway if any of you ladies can give me any words of encouragement or any advice that would be gratefully appreciated.

Baby dust to you all and thanks in advance.

XXXXXXX

 

[mamadonna]

Aw best of luck bubsy!!

 

[Bubsylooloos]

Well that didn't go as expected! It turns out I have an endometrial cyst on left ovary that he needs to remove before starting anything my right ovary is fine but I have no tube! My left tube is fine but ovary has a cyst stopping it from ovulating! I'm trying to stay positive but it's one thing after another! He has booked me in to have it removed early June :'( feeling very down at the moment x