I'm going to basically pack two bags. One will be a 'just in case' bag with a few basics I might need the first day in hospital if I was to need to go in, like a comfy change of clothes, body wash, tooth paste, maternity/breast pads, etc. And then just store that away somewhere where I won't have to look at it or think about needing it, but my husband and doula will know where it is in case someone needs to grab it for me. I'm not going overboard though, I figure if I need anything more than those basics, someone could bring them in to me the next day.
Then I'll pack sort of a box or basket of the things I want with me for my home birth, like my robe, snacks, aromatherapy oils, towels, the container to put my placenta in (I'm encapsulating it) etc. and things for baby, like nappies, one set of clothes, a towel, some blankets, etc.
If I need to go to hospital, all anyone will have to do is take this stuff and dump it in my 'just in case' bag and head out the door. I'll know I have everything organised in case I do need it, but I won't have a hospital bag sitting and staring at me while I'm trying to birth. I basically want to pack it and then put it out of my mind so I can focus on my home birth.