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[floridamomma]

I had an abdominal scan at a private place. Pretty sure it's over

 

[Tasha]

Florida, they didn't clarify?

 

[floridamomma]

I didn't see a hb they didn't either. The hematoma is almost bigger than the baby and they said maybe I'm too early. It I've been scan twice with the specialist so I know my dates. It was an Iui too so no second guesses

 

[loeylo]

Florida so sorry to see this.

 

[Hope39]

I'm sorry Florida, you've seen a hb at your prevoous scans haven't you?

Xx

 

[floridamomma]

Thank you

 

[Ummi2boyz]

Florida: I can only second what the other ladies have said. Especially wookie. If you must know, this pregnancy is the one I was the less confident in, the one I prayed so hard to stick, but everyday that pass I still cannot believe I am pregnant. I towards the end and I am still terrified, and still praying everything goes well.
People just can not understand and it would be so much better if they told us: "I am sorry, I cannot understand what you're doing through, but I am here to help if you need me".
Take it a step at a time, everyday that passes is a victory.
Sending lots of and yay!! for the Vegas trip!!!

 

[Ummi2boyz]

I am sorry, I did not see your last post, the page did not load.
I hope it's not the case.

 

[blueblue]

Florida - I'm so sorry, take care

 

[newlywedtzh]

I just. Don't understand. Did they see the baby? Measure it?

 

[floridamomma]

They said they don't do measurements. But the baby didn't have a visible heart beat or one that was picked up when they listened for it.

 

[Hope39]

Florida have you seen a hb before on one of your previous scans x

 

[floridamomma]

Yes twice at 5 weeks and 6 weeks

 

[wookie130]

Omg...florida.

I question this scan. Can you call your regular office and have them rescan you? I'm so sorry this is happening. I still carry so much hope for you. Please get a second opinion.

 

[floridamomma]

My obs office said they'll get back to me. Last time I went through this I was actively miscarrying in severe pain and they made me wait in the waiting room while i bled through my clothes and then I had a trasnvag us while I cried on the table. I'm stopping everything except steroids. No use prolonging the inevitable

 

[Hope39]

Yes twice at 5 weeks and 6 weeks

I thought you had. I got a bit confused when you said you was sure of your dates, I then thought you hadn't seen a hb already

Thinking of you x

 

[SweetV]

Florida, I'm so sorry you are going though this. I hope a scan at your regular office shows otherwise.

My first 2 miscarriages they let me sit there as well and part of the reason I will never go back to that office. Can you switch doctors? I hope this visit they see you quickly.

 

[wookie130]

How demeaning and cruel, Florida. I will never understand how members of the medical community can neglect a woman experiencing a loss like this...to me, it merits the utmost compassion and care.

I'm so sorry. I feel terrible...here I wanted this time to be different for you. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

 

[Squig34]

Florida, I'm so sorry.

 

[floridamomma]

Thank you all. This actually is my new ob. Time to move on though. Dh said before that he was done trying as it's too hard on us. He went for it once more because we thought the meds would help. He said he can't do it anymore. Honestly I don't think I can either. I just want to live a little and let go if this dream. It hurts though. My duh had no biological children. Good luck ladies but I guess I won't need the sure anymore. I'll definitely be popping in to check on you guys!xxx