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It was turners (45) so the baby girl could of lived ( they are a few babies born with this) but she would of been disabled for life, exceptionally short (dwarf) and infertile. So I'm glad that she wasn't born cos it would of been a hard life for her and no babies. I think sometimes as hard as it is if it's not meant to be that's better than struggling with life etc .....
 
Pretty Please said:
It was turners (45) so the baby girl could of lived ( they are a few babies born with this) but she would of been disabled for life, exceptionally short (dwarf) and infertile. So I'm glad that she wasn't born cos it would of been a hard life for her and no babies. I think sometimes as hard as it is if it's not meant to be that's better than struggling with life etc .....
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I wholeheartedly agree with this sentiment, Pretty. My husband and I made a decision that if we could help it, we aren't going to bring a disabled child into the world. I know some couples will do anything to bring a child into the world and I respect that. I think there is a place in the world for disabled people. But I didn't want to watch my child go through all of those kinds of challenges.
 
Yeah me to Amanda :-(

I did have the injection I hit the roof when he injected the top part of my mouth just under the roof I jumped and let out a whinge urgh glad it's done tho I'm going to take some pain killers I can feel the back of my mouth start too wake and it's sore x
 
Afternoon snooze to numb the pain :) fingers crossed that's your last dentist appointment for a while ! Hopefully u remembered that u can claim free as prego on Nhs ! (although I'm not sure How many weeks u need to be when u can get free treatment .....)
 
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Pretty Please said:
It was turners (45) so the baby girl could of lived ( they are a few babies born with this) but she would of been disabled for life, exceptionally short (dwarf) and infertile. So I'm glad that she wasn't born cos it would of been a hard life for her and no babies. I think sometimes as hard as it is if it's not meant to be that's better than struggling with life etc .....
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I wholeheartedly agree with this sentiment, Pretty. My husband and I made a decision that if we could help it, we aren't going to bring a disabled child into the world. I know some couples will do anything to bring a child into the world and I respect that. I think there is a place in the world for disabled people. But I didn't want to watch my child go through all of those kinds of challenges.
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I completely agree too, thanks Louise :hugs::hugs: I think as painful as it is because they are still in effect our babies that is the right decision to make. God life is hard enough I think! :nope:
I've just spoken to Rosemary at St marys she is such a lovely woman. She really put my mind at rest and told me that I'm not more likely to have more losses due to trisomy and that it's good news and that so many people go ln to be successful after a loss like this. And that rpl's are not immune to random loss as you said Lou. So feeling much happier now!
 
I'm glad you are feeling better about this Fili. I think it is a reasonable way to look at it. What I find interesting is that this pregnancy mimicked all of your others. Did you only have the tissue tested for your 3rd and 4th? It makes me wonder if your 1st and 2nd were also bad luck. I bet you have a lot of questions rolling through your brain right now. But the good news is that bad luck happens to normal bodies. Your body isn't any less likely to carry a baby than someone without any issues. Especially with your treatment plan. Things are looking up. How did your hpt tests look today?
 
Heart my test was negative for the first time today :yipee: but this overshadowed my joy! The only things different with this pregnancy were the super high hcg and 2 weeks behind growth instead of just under a week. 1 and 2 weren't tested. 3 was normal 4 trisomy so dont know what to think!
 
Oh and I didn't have any cramping whatsoever and with the other 3 I did
 
Well you'll never know about 1 & 2. But this information gives you some real knowledge.

Great news about the negative test! The water worked! LOL!

Now, bring on OV! We need a pregnant Fili again!!!
 
i wanted to wear the same outfit in all bump pics but it isn't going to work, this shirt is now too tight and i'm too lazy to put on my black pants. gained 15 lbs so far. one of my coworkers brought me a ton of materinity clothes from her daughter who had twins last July! so putting all of my normal clothes away. But, some of those materinity clothes are too small in the shoulders. Funny because there are many tank tops and swim suits and what looks to be tube tops? no clue...

that's the last lovenox bruise I have, the others are pretty much gone (just shadows of bruises now)
 

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Happy 15 weeks Amanda <3 <3. You are moving along great and on your way!

Hopeful - great belly. Look at you Mommy of 2!

So glad you two are doing great. :flower:

Kisses
 
Ah titi how u doing?? Xc
Fili I'm so sorry I posted to u earlier an it didn't come out!! Was on my phone! I'm so sorry to hear ur news, it's so sad but a kind of encoursging to no there was something wrong an a reason for losing ur bubs xx an fab news that it shouldn't effect future pg!! The most fab news u have a bfn!! Woo hoo!! Xx

Just had my jacket potato was yum now eating a refresher lolly!! Never ever liked sweeties even as a child! Now love them!! Brought marshmallows an popcorn for tonight!! Yum

Hopeful gorgeous bump!! You don't look like u gained a stone xx
 
Heart it will be 5 days till I ov! Omg then I go back on the steroids, just when I started losing weight too!

I think you're right about the progesterone heart, I think we always know best when you have a strong instinct, it won't do you any harm to keep taking it anyway x x
 
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Ah titi how u doing?? Xc
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davies! Wow hon you are 15+ ! It is so great to see you doing so well. I am doing fine. Waiting for the witch to return after my d&c and going to be seeing a RMC specialist here in NY soon. I have to have a saline sono of my uterus and a few more tests (as if I need any more) and then starting IVF with PGD testing in late March/early April to see if we can get any normal embryos. My RE asked my mom about me the other day (mom works there) and is excited b/c they are having alot of success with IVF + PGD and a 5/6 day transfer. So we shall see.

Right now I am very excited for my Valentine's Day weekend hubby planned! He is such a romantic.

So happy you and the LO are doing so well! :flower:
 
Hi titi! I must be mad mustn't I!? The ivf sounds exciting, we were going to do that treatment pgd with ivf - we went to the bridge fertility clinic in London and saw mr summers but he advised against it after our normal third loss. However this 4th loss is abnormal! Bt obviously I have something wrong with my body so I'm going to try the steroids again. Did you ever have those day 3 bloods done titi? You know fsh and all that? X
 
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