Hey everyone - thought I'd give an update on my situation after my post on sat.
Well unfortunately I woke up yesterday morning with quite a heavy bleed and passed a large clot. As I'm sure you can imagine - I had a complete breakdown and thought, this is it happening all over again and I just cannot go through this
I spent most of yesterday in hospital and bleeding has totally calmed down to just brown when I wipe. I had a scan to check baby yesterday and I also went for my 12 wk dating scan today. The sonographer found the bit of blood on the scan and said its nothing to worry about and that its just due to the placenta embedding into the wall of the uterus. Does this sound right to everyone??? I also seen my consultant who did a transvaginal scan as well just to reassure us that all was looking ok from that side as well. He said to expect the brown stuff for more than a few days and then it should settle and to go back if it turns bright red and fresh again. Has anyone else experienced / heard of this kind of bleed??
On the plus side I had 2 scans (yesterday and today) and baby was VERY active at both - bouncing around all over the place!! When the sonographer was trying to reassure me today the funniest thing happened - the baby gave a big thumbs up on the screen as if to say "I'm fine mum"

and I'm measuring ahead of what I thought - 13 wks today.
It is very reassuring to have seen baby looking so well but the bleeding gave me such a scare and reminded me that I have no control over anything - all we can do is hope and pray!!
Hope you are all well
Poodlemommy - welcome!! So happy you had a good scan

your baby sounds like mine being so active and showing off and measuring ahead!! Here's hoping for a happy ending for us