BlueWater
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I know I'm not alone with this one.
But OH is neither in nor out, he confuses me.
So he knows full well that I want children ASAP, he knows I also worry about leaving it to late. I've been saying I want kids for months and months.
OH has always been saying, if it happens it happens. But more recently he's been saying 'yes we will plan children soon' -making me believe it's more definite to plan.
But about 2 days ago, he said well he doesn't wanna plan for children straight away because of financial reasons.
Ok, I totally understand his point, and of course my point I want children sooner than later.
But he's changed the goal posts, like when he was a definite yes, I could for sure plan when to BD using opks and bbt and expensive fertility lube.
But now it's like, I'm forcing him to have a baby.
But OH is neither in nor out, he confuses me.
So he knows full well that I want children ASAP, he knows I also worry about leaving it to late. I've been saying I want kids for months and months.
OH has always been saying, if it happens it happens. But more recently he's been saying 'yes we will plan children soon' -making me believe it's more definite to plan.
But about 2 days ago, he said well he doesn't wanna plan for children straight away because of financial reasons.
Ok, I totally understand his point, and of course my point I want children sooner than later.
But he's changed the goal posts, like when he was a definite yes, I could for sure plan when to BD using opks and bbt and expensive fertility lube.
But now it's like, I'm forcing him to have a baby.