elephant29
Daddy, mummy, LO and bean
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Sorry for the moan.
I feel like things are totally outwith my control at the minute with regards to Lo and her childcare.
So OH calls me on his breaks and decides to tell me his dad is going to be taking LO all day tomorrow. He is just back from a 2 week holiday and also LO has never spent anytime over an hour or so alone with him in her life! I feel as though I cant say no though as it's OH's dad and what gives me the right. I just feel a little shaky and I cant explain it. I wasnt asked about this, just told which makes me feel weird. It means LO being taken out of her CM for a whole day. His dad speaks to her in a weird way. He will talk to her like 'What have I told you about making noise/playing/throwing food'. I know he isnt being mean or nasty but I dont like it. I wish he would speak to her normally! Also he hasnt fed her before or put her for a nap, she's never spent the night at theirs....argh!
Also now my CM just called and said my mum called her and had come and picked LO up! This wasnt arranged by me....I knew nothing about it. LO doesnt get picked up until after 5.30 normally. I wasnt asked again!!
Can someone tell me I am over reacting please as right now I am actually on the verge of tears. I feel like everyone is just helping themselves to her and I have no say because I am at work. I know hormones may be playing a part but I hope thats all it is and someone tells me to grow up and let go a bit!
xxx
I feel like things are totally outwith my control at the minute with regards to Lo and her childcare.
So OH calls me on his breaks and decides to tell me his dad is going to be taking LO all day tomorrow. He is just back from a 2 week holiday and also LO has never spent anytime over an hour or so alone with him in her life! I feel as though I cant say no though as it's OH's dad and what gives me the right. I just feel a little shaky and I cant explain it. I wasnt asked about this, just told which makes me feel weird. It means LO being taken out of her CM for a whole day. His dad speaks to her in a weird way. He will talk to her like 'What have I told you about making noise/playing/throwing food'. I know he isnt being mean or nasty but I dont like it. I wish he would speak to her normally! Also he hasnt fed her before or put her for a nap, she's never spent the night at theirs....argh!
Also now my CM just called and said my mum called her and had come and picked LO up! This wasnt arranged by me....I knew nothing about it. LO doesnt get picked up until after 5.30 normally. I wasnt asked again!!
Can someone tell me I am over reacting please as right now I am actually on the verge of tears. I feel like everyone is just helping themselves to her and I have no say because I am at work. I know hormones may be playing a part but I hope thats all it is and someone tells me to grow up and let go a bit!
xxx