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My LO certainly was not planned, but I wouldn't trade him for the world and more and he isn't even born yet. He wasn't planned but definately isn't unwanted.
I don't think that girls age 13/14/15 and even 16 should be planning families IMO. 13 and 14 is still too young. You are just a teenager, hardly through your educational career and have so much to experience at that age.
15 and 16, you may have matured a bit but you still aren't able to finish high school in the UK until you are 16 or nearing your 16th birthday. You don't have a minimum wage requirement and many people at 15 do not get hired due to lack of experience. In society you cannot do much, you cannot sign contracts or get loans. You cannot claim benefits for yourself etc. You aren't in a financially stable situation to plan a family.
I don't think there is an 'age' at which it should be acceptable, like 18+ is acceptable or whatever. I belief if you are in a loving, long term, committed relationship and you have finances available then go ahead. However, at the ages I have said, the chances of being in a relationship that is mature for a long amount of time already seems unlikely, so does financial stability.
Yet saying this, I do not believe age make anyone a 'good' or 'bad' parent.