Please, August, do not taunt- it's BFPs that we want!

[clynn11]

It doesn't bother me at all either! We have supported each other through so much, I would hope we are all happy for those getting BFPs. And I hope to join you guys! Lol. I know the heartbreak of having AF, and maybe little bits of jealousy that it's not me that's pregnant- but I still love hearing about how your pregnancies are going

 

[jury3]

Thanks girls!

I was googling "when will I feel pregnant" last night and so many people said they didn't feel it until around the time of kicks...is that true!!!!! That's so far away!

What profile pic do you girls see for me? I tried to change it to my FRERs but I don't see it...

 

[jury3]

Awwww, I seriously can't wait til you girls join us on this side of the fence, greener grass or on the dark side...however you want to look at it lol I just hope you take it as a sign of hope! I really did not think it would happen for me this month and I felt like I would never see that 2nd pink line. I keep going in to look at my tests and make sure they didn't disappear lol (P.S. If you do digis, they disappear after 24 hours...I was very sad to see it go)
I hate that once you get a bfp, you're in this weird limbo for a while. Am I really pregnant? Am I going to stay that way? I won't have a doc apt for weeks...I don't feel pregnant or look pregnant. What am I going to do with myself until my first appointment?!?!

 

[prgirl_11]

Nichole, stay positive and don't lose hope. Your doctor might just prescribe you a progesterone cream or suppository. There are options so hang in there.

And hurray for ovulation! Looks like your body is cooperating and that is fantastic!

 

[asmcsm]

I get a little jealous too at times but nothing like when someone on Facebook posts. I'm happy for everyone on here that gets their BFPs, whereas when someone on Facebook does I want to scream and punch things and unfriendly them lol. But everyone on here deserves it so much and has tried so hard. I would be sad if everyone moved on after getting their BFPs.

 

[prgirl_11]

Thanks girls!

I was googling "when will I feel pregnant" last night and so many people said they didn't feel it until around the time of kicks...is that true!!!!! That's so far away!

What profile pic do you girls see for me? I tried to change it to my FRERs but I don't see it...

That happened to me too. Make sure you are updating both your avatar and profile pic.

 

[jury3]

Thanks prgirl! That was the trick...

 

[prgirl_11]

I get a little jealous too at times but nothing like when someone on Facebook posts. I'm happy for everyone on here that gets their BFPs, whereas when someone on Facebook does I want to scream and punch things and unfriendly them lol. But everyone on here deserves it so much and has tried so hard. I would be sad if everyone moved on after getting their BFPs.

I know what you mean. My husband's nephew was in the hospital all night. His wife just had their first baby. Am I happy for them, sure. I don't really know them LOL. My cousin had been trying for five hears and was told she would never nave kids. This caused her to fall into a deep depression. She is currently 33 weeks pregnant with baby Grace. I am over the moon for her. God had his hand over her life and rewarded her with such a gift.

Can't wait 'til it's my turn. Until then, putting all my faith in God's perfect timing and chatting it up with lovely ladies such as yourselves!

 

[frsttimemama]

I get a little jealous too at times but nothing like when someone on Facebook posts. I'm happy for everyone on here that gets their BFPs, whereas when someone on Facebook does I want to scream and punch things and unfriendly them lol. But everyone on here deserves it so much and has tried so hard. I would be sad if everyone moved on after getting their BFPs.

I have to agree with you. I'm happy for the ladies on here that work so hard for these BFP's and deserve it so much as opposed to the ones on Facebook that already have 29 kids, no jobs, party all the time, are lousy parents, they aren't trying, and so many other things or a combination of any of the above things.. SO frustrating and heartbreaking to see. I hate it. But I'm happy to see the ladies get BFP's on here and keep up with how things are going for them.

 

[VivianJean]

Anyone recommend a good fertility specialist in LA? Pref NoHo side of town? I want to know what the hell is going on and whether there is anything I can do. United Health has been masterfully unhelpful (their drop down doenst have "fertility" as a search option WTF) and all the docs I've called have ugly (I can only assume because their personalities are horrid) receptionists who are very unhelpful and dont know anything about what the doctor does. Facepalm.

Only thing I can do right now to stop myself from crying at work is pretend that I have some sort of control over my life... oh and my boss is 13 weeks preg. FML.

 

[VivianJean]

Failing that I'll go back to conceptions in Denver but it'll mean taking time off work that I don't have (it'll be unpaid leave and I've only just started this job).

Oh and I messaged some networks in Denver today btw about work opportunities - have two "conversations" on the boil. Maybe I can move closer to DH after all.... right?

Again, pseudo sense of control.

Ok, welling up in the eye-balls

 

[NDTaber9211]

Don't be silly Julie! Please stay and keep talking about it. Seeing you ladies who have struggles get your keeps me hopeful! You all deserve it and I am genuinely happy for everyone.

 

[NDTaber9211]

ACK! I sent an e-mail to my doctor about my level like 2 hours ago and just realized I sent to to my general practice doctor instead! I hope I didn't miss my ob/gyn.

 

[VivianJean]

ACK! I sent an e-mail to my doctor about my level like 2 hours ago and just realized I sent to to my general practice doctor instead! I hope I didn't miss my ob/gyn.

ouch

 

[frsttimemama]

I found this page on the link that ws posted earlier.. some of it is so true!

https://www.twoweekwait.com/articles/what-no-one-told-you-about-trying-to-conceive

Just wanted to share

 

[VivianJean]

augh made me cry and then my colleague walked in and I had to pretend I was yawning.... this stuff needs to come with a "NSFW" warning.

 

[Disneybaby26]

Nicole-that's a good number for 6dpo I promise!! Women normally test on 7 dpo so it for sure would have been higher!! Yay for the clomid working for you, with minimal side effects, this is a great thing!!! Fx'd for you!!

Julie-try not to worry! I don't feel preggo at all, except for my monster huge rock hard boobs and my 1pm morning sickness everyday lol...give it time

Question: have any of you preggos had trouble eating? Not like sickness but like portion wise? I get hungry and have no aversion to the food but then can only eat a couple bites before I feel so full I'll bust! I don't know if it's bc I'm bloated or drinking so much water or what but i remember it happening last time and it makes me feel like a bowling ball!

 

[TTCaWee1]

Hi ladies!!!

Yay Nichole for o-ing and Yay Sandy for crosshairs!

Sorry you feel so horrible Vivian. DH used to travel for work and would be gone for months at a time. It was awful. Eventually I gave him an ultimatum bc it was too much of a strain. Luckily he chose us over all the money he made and now he's a cop. I'd rather have him home making decent money than gone making loads of it. And that was before we married or even got engaged. That shit wouldn't fly married...

I've been following along, trying not to post too much though bc I feel bad too but then I remind myself that I am not some crack whore unemployed piece of trash and that I tried for 13 cycles AND I am one of the originals of this thread....so I demand to stay. Even if its in the shadows lol. Honestly I don't even know that I'll officially ever move over to the pregnancy boards. I don't know those people! Y'all have stuck it out with me for awhile, some of you since January! So I'd love to stick around and see everyone get their BFPs.

I still don't feel preggo. Sometimes I pee on a test at work just to see the two lines lol. My belly is poking out a little and I think it's just bc I'm so thin. I can't even suck it in lol....we have another u/s Wednesday. Hoping everything is all good in there still.

 

[frsttimemama]

Nicole-that's a good number for 6dpo I promise!! Women normally test on 7 dpo so it for sure would have been higher!! Yay for the clomid working for you, with minimal side effects, this is a great thing!!! Fx'd for you!!

Julie-try not to worry! I don't feel preggo at all, except for my monster huge rock hard boobs and my 1pm morning sickness everyday lol...give it time

Question: have any of you preggos had trouble eating? Not like sickness but like portion wise? I get hungry and have no aversion to the food but then can only eat a couple bites before I feel so full I'll bust! I don't know if it's bc I'm bloated or drinking so much water or what but i remember it happening last time and it makes me feel like a bowling ball!

I had that issue when I was pregnant with my son. I wasn't hungry for months.. then I was STARVED for months. Lol

 

[Cowgirl07]

Amelia-please don't cry, I don't know of any specialist for you.
PRgirl-I am glad your cousin finally got her rainbow baby and I love the name she will have.
AFM: I am hungry, starving actually and I had a snack at 5. I am not sure what we will have for dinner since dh went out to the farm.