Please pray for our baby boy :'( *Update on amnio results!!!!

[MummaBump]

So happy you have some positive news hun!!.... i'll keep preying that you get even more good news on tuesday xxx

 

[Raggydoll]

I'm so glad you've had some good news with today's results, keeping everything crossed for next Tuesday.

 

[Pingu]

So pleased that you have had some good news. Hope all goes well on Tuesday xx

 

[Angelmarie]

Aw Im so pleased you have finally had some good news! I have still got everything crossed for you. Roll on Tuesday and it bringing some positive news!

All the luck in the world. Praying for little Kaden

 

[xxx bex xxx]

that me little luv is fantastic!!!iv been praying like mad!!and will say another for you!!!
a little light at the end of the tunnel!!!thats fab hun....so pleased for you!! xxx

 

[Tasha]

I am so pleased for you hun, we will continue to hold you close in our thoughts and hope that the good news continues

 

[WW1]

I'm so pleased about your positive news! Will keep my fingers crossed for next week x

 

[Naya69]

iam sooooo happy to hear this good news iam keeping my fingers crossed for next tuesday and praying all is ok xxx

 

[hayley x]

It's soooo lovely to read a positive update from you I sooo hope the good news keeps coming. Your doing really well, thinking of you all xxx

 

[ninab]

Fantastic news hon x x x x x

 

[Justme]

Will be keeping everything crossed for the scan on tuesday.Your little man sounds like a fighter hun.Keep strong and positive x x

 

[Lisalovesbean]

I just wanted to say that your update sounds so hopeful....I wish you the best!

Also wanted to add that back in march mine and OH friends who were also pregnant recieved similar news to yours......and they were told that the likelyhood of baby being born alive was pretty low and/or life expectancy of only a few months....they've remained hopeful and had weekly scans and lots of specialist care over the past few months and each week the scenario looked better than the initial prognosis.

They were aware from the scan that baby would have fluid on the brain and some it's intestine growing into the umbilical cord and outside of it's body, but they had had the edwards/patou/turners syndrome diagnosis cleared as time went on.

Anyway last Monday 27th July our friends son was born by c-section at 39 weeks and immediately transferred to a specialist childrens hospital for observation and surgery which was performed successfully just a few days after his birth, baby is doing great and there was no fluid, just the intestinal problem! I wish same outcome for you, don't give up hope! xxxxx

 

[apple84]

Wow your recent update make me hopeful! I really hope that your little boy will be ok. I am thinking of you and your family every day. Please keep updating us!

 

[Barneyboo]

I am chuffed to bits that so far things are looking good, I will keep praying for you and sending tons of positive vibes x x x x x xx

 

[FlowerFairy]

How lovely to read your recent update Still thinking of you, but this sounds much more hopeful xxx

 

[MrsQ]

Yesterday we went for scan to check the my womb was still strong since being torn when having a c-section with my last son 4years ago...we went into the scan room and she said we just gonna check him over first...so there he was blowing bubbles, waving, jumping...then she focused on the ventricles of his brain, she spent awhile doing this and asked me to turn to get a better look...she then said she needs a 2nd opinion..well from then on me and OH new something was wrong ...she then stopped the scan and sent us to a room...a room like when someone has died, with flowers and tissues...our heart was breaking.
The midiwfe came in and explain that the ventricles in his brain are enlarged and prominent which could indicate something is wrong.
i need to go back thursday for a detailed scan then me and OH may be faced with a decision, a decision no mother or father should hav to make
She has seen both cases, where the ventricles decrease and fix themselves but also they could get worse
How can i choose weather my baby lives or dies? i love him so much already, me and OH just cried all night, we kept kian inour bed last night we couldnt bare to be a part from him
i have been praying for my baby to be ok, i havnt slept, and i have no more tears to cry...i cant give birth to my baby then have to bury him
Kian keeps getting little baby socks and toys saying they are for his baby..hes so excited

thursday wil either be the best day, or the worst day of our lives...

he is kicking me while i type this and all i want to do is hold him and mak him better, m his mommy an i cnt help him, it's killing me

xxx

The scan was worse than we thought, i couldnt watch him, everytime i glimpsed his lil hands were waving.
turns out our precious baby boy has many things wrong with his brain,,including fluid, and theres parts missing that should be there, sorry i cnt remember the exact words, he also has short limbs which could indicate downs syndrome. i had an amnio in my tummy which they took some fluid to check for down, edwards and pato syndrome. Its not looking good at all.
i have to go to birminghams children hospital for an mri and ive had blood tests for any virus
We will then be faced with a decision in 2 weeks time. it is against the law to terminate after 24 weeks so if we do decide (and please dont hate me if we do decide to terminate)it will be down to an ethics commitee to see if we have a good enough reason
I will then be given an inejection to stop his heart and i will give birth to him i havnt slept or eaten in 3 days and iv cried so many tears, our heart is aching.
They told me he is a poorly baby and im telling him if he wants to go to a better place than go, we love him so so much
Thank u all for your prayers but unluckily he is just to precious 4 this world

1st part of the amnio result
Our baby is clear of downs, edward and patue syndrome!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I no we eint out the woods yet but it gives us a little bit of hope that he wont be as severe as they thought!
His sex chromosomes also came back clear, he is all boy and his bits are in perfect order!!

Please keep praying, someone isfinaly listening
Than u so so sooo much!!!

its all down to next tuesday now, please god keep our baby safe!!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

xxx

OH MY GOD I Am Soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo happy for you! You must have literally collapsed with relief!!!!!!

So have they said what the next step is????

WOW i cant stop smiling!
xxx

 

[elainegee]

I am so happy to hear this for you!! I know how desperate you were and down about the whole situation. Keeping fingers crossed that your baby isn't as poorly as first thought xxx

 

[DiddyDons]

The results sound very hopeful hun Your little man sounds like such a little fighter.

Thinking of you all x x

 

[saraendepity]

so pleased the amnio results came back positive...keeping everything crossed for you

sara

xxxxxx

 

[baby.love]

I'll keep praying for your little man babes