xLuciax
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I'm so lost I dont know what to do no one will listen to me its a long story which I hope someone will listen
My son is 5 months old since about month 1/2 - 2 months old he developed very strange feeding habits he does not like to feed or eat every day is a war with him some days he will not eat others he will take a bit but he will never take proper feeds I breast feed and have tried putting him on the bottle I have boguht every single bottle but none have worked sometimes he chooses to take it other times he will not have it at all same goes with breastfeeding he will literally starve himself he will never have full feeds on good days he will take maybe a little bit I have tried to talk to my health visitor about his feeding behaviour she tried to tell me he is a little and often baby but some days he will not even feed so how is that a little and often baby? Ive seen pediacritions who tied to fob me off with silent reflux but he was the same with and without the medication I took him back and they basically told me not to ome back because he puts on weight which he does but I know thatis only because I literally shove a whole jar of baby food down him at night because his stomach sounds like its strving but he will refuse a bottle and most of the time refuse the breast
tonight he even started to refuse the food I was giving him before it even reched his mouth he would gag like he didnt want me to even put it in and just spit it out I really dont understand his behaviour I dont know if something traumatic in his eyes has happened and has left him with not wanthing things in his mouth I just dont know where to turn to no one will help me and im so worried about him because at the moment he has throat infection and its hard to even get the fluids inside him that he needs can anyone offer anything? any advice or experience with this sort of thing? I just cant stop crying because I feel so helpless
My son is 5 months old since about month 1/2 - 2 months old he developed very strange feeding habits he does not like to feed or eat every day is a war with him some days he will not eat others he will take a bit but he will never take proper feeds I breast feed and have tried putting him on the bottle I have boguht every single bottle but none have worked sometimes he chooses to take it other times he will not have it at all same goes with breastfeeding he will literally starve himself he will never have full feeds on good days he will take maybe a little bit I have tried to talk to my health visitor about his feeding behaviour she tried to tell me he is a little and often baby but some days he will not even feed so how is that a little and often baby? Ive seen pediacritions who tied to fob me off with silent reflux but he was the same with and without the medication I took him back and they basically told me not to ome back because he puts on weight which he does but I know thatis only because I literally shove a whole jar of baby food down him at night because his stomach sounds like its strving but he will refuse a bottle and most of the time refuse the breast
tonight he even started to refuse the food I was giving him before it even reched his mouth he would gag like he didnt want me to even put it in and just spit it out I really dont understand his behaviour I dont know if something traumatic in his eyes has happened and has left him with not wanthing things in his mouth I just dont know where to turn to no one will help me and im so worried about him because at the moment he has throat infection and its hard to even get the fluids inside him that he needs can anyone offer anything? any advice or experience with this sort of thing? I just cant stop crying because I feel so helpless