*** Positive Mental Attitude TTC - Anyone joining us? ***

[lilesMom]

oh and to ge tmore on track with ur qs , they only live an hour away so visits will be strictly day time only we dont even have a spare room anymore cos other bedroom wil be bubs, and the 2 downstairs, one is my gym and one is Oh comp room/study/brewing center

 

[Smiler82]

Oh Lilesmim I'm sorry you feel that they find you 'lacking', that's not a nice feeling to have. But wow you guys have been together for 11 years so clearly you are the one he wants! My sister had that thing about the marriage too from her in-laws, when they announced her pregnancy the first thing they asked was when are they going to get married. They were going to anyway, but she really resented the pushiness of it. It's quite rude, it's none of their business.

Haha safe distance is a good way to have it Thanks for the advice I will have to put that into action when the time comes. I just know that they're going to be clamouring to come and stay and telling us we need their help etc. His Dad sleeps on the sofa because we only have a futon in the spare room and he can't get up out of it. Then his mum has the futon, so that's the lounge and the spare room out when they visit. People I know with babies say they lived in the lounge the first couple of weeks as they got virtually no sleep so I am going to have to use that as an excuse too! Also they are planning on getting a dog soon and I'm not sure about dogs and newborns.

Ooh you have a home gym! Brilliant! We keep meaning to turn our garage into one but it's just full of crap haha

Well update today - still no sign of AF but not taking that to be a good sign yet. 14dpo and temp is still high, but I have had it crash on 15 dpo before so nothing certain yet. Had some AF-type cramps last night that made me think it was def all over but they were fairly-short lived and not had any today. TMI here but I seem to have a little more CM than usual....I'm not checking it properly as I'm scared to see the start of AF! But definitely more. Ooh, I don't know!!

 

[lilesMom]

ooohhh fx smiler. looking promising but i know why u dont wanna get hopes up too high yet xxxxxxxxxxxx but i def had crampyness and extra cm xxxxxxxxx
i reall really hope so
i dont feel lacking with Oh just his mom
he is her golden boy and i dont know if anyone be good enough irish mammies ha ha xxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Smiler82]

Aw yeah I think that is the same with most boys and their mums, they are the little princes haha

Still no sign of AF, no cramps so far today either...been out shopping and for lunch with a friend so doing quite well at keeping my mind off it. Until now, when I'm supposed to be working

 

[lilesMom]

when u gonna test xxx i would so have caved by like ages ago haha xxx

 

[babybemine]

So in a mood righ now

DH and I got into a fight and he refused to BD. (We are supposed to be BDing every other day.) While it is unlikely that I am ovulating, I would like to be able to say that we gave it all we could. I feel like I have to go through all this shit...scary tests (possibly painful) and procedures and DH can't even keep up with his part of the bargain. He still has yet to provide his SA sample as well. Man how I wish that all I had to do was put a sample of my goo in a cup and provide it. I feel like it is wasting time for me to have to have an HSG if we are not going to be BDing anyway.

On a side note, the hospital called to let me know about a double blind study that is offered during the HSG. From what I understand they combine a steroid with the dye used during the procedure. I called my doctor about this and he was not in the office. The people I did talk to seemed to have no idea about this as if I was the first person to ever bring it up...sounds weird to me. Considering that this is a fertility doctor you would think that other people would of been offered the same and had concerns to bring to the attention of their MD.

 

[lilesMom]

sorry dh is being an ass hon, xxxx
i know they have it soooo much easier and then act like they have to put in loads of effort xxx one day skipped when u dont think ur Ov wont hurt honey, hugs xxxxxxxxx

 

[babybemine]

sorry dh is being an ass hon, xxxx
i know they have it soooo much easier and then act like they have to put in loads of effort xxx one day skipped when u dont think ur Ov wont hurt honey, hugs xxxxxxxxx

I am not so concerned that we did not do it today, but actually more concerned of what he will do in the future. While I am doing all this stuff I hate to think that he may be the one sabotaging everything and we dont get a BFP because of lack of BDing. If he can refuse today, what is stopping him from refusing tomorrow or the next day when I could be OVing.

 

[lilesMom]

try not to think about it now while ur still mad at him,
ye wil prob feel better tomor xxx i hope u do hon xxxxxxx hugs xxxxxxxxx

 

[Smiler82]

when u gonna test xxx i would so have caved by like ages ago haha xxx

If nothing happens tomorrow I will test Fri AM. Really nervous! Xx

 

[Smiler82]

Ok I cracked...

Can't believe it, still in shock. I am SO nervous but excited!

 

[lilesMom]

hurray ooohhhhh yes smiler, happy xmas , woohoo xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Smiler82]

Thanks! The psychic lady was right, we conceived in November! Now to wait and see if she is right about it being twin girls

 

[babybemine]

Yea smiles. Couldn't be happier for you.

 

[lilesMom]

Thanks! The psychic lady was right, we conceived in November! Now to wait and see if she is right about it being twin girls

that is so great hon xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
wow twin girls be cool. hard work but realy lovely xxxxxx
im so happy for u sweetie xxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Smiler82]

Aww thanks ladies. Still doesn't quite seem real. I know it's normal but keep having cramps/twinges etc and I don't like it!! I think I will be able to stay relatively calm for the next month or so, but when we get to 10-12 weeks I'm going to be a bag of nerves at that's when we lost the others

I think the meditation helped, so am going to try and find some more tracks.

How is everyone else? Are you feeling any better lilesmom? xx

 

[DiscoRia]

oh my!!!! congratulations smiler!!!! that is such fantastic news *hugs*

my battery will die any minute , but I had to say how happy I am for you!!! xx

 

[Smiler82]

Thanks Discoria!

How is everything with you?

 

[babybemine]

MY HSG was clear
Ultrasound again on the 17th

 

[Hopeful335]

Ohy god good news all round Smiler I am so so so pleased for you!!!!!!!!!!! Yey!!! BTW to make you poss relax a little with my first two mc I had no cramps, twinges, anything. This time I've had loads and it seems to be the healthy pg! I think they are what happens to normal ppl. Scary but kind of comforting too!!!! Oh do excited for you!!! Twin girls would not be shocking on clomid. I know someone on cloud who had triplets-two boys and a girl!!! So plsd!!!!!!

Babybemine I'm really plsd for you too what good news!!! Sorry dh is being a prick. Sounds v similar to mine. He'd do things like that. Now he's taking to going out drinking when he feels like for a few but threatening more if I moan about the few. Says he needs to get it in before baby born but he's 31 had yrs-he's really upsetting me!!!!!! Byway just wanted to say I know how you feel.

All good with me-Lilesmom how are you? All better? Discoria how are you? x x