*** Positive Mental Attitude TTC - Anyone joining us? ***

[mommylov]

Hi Girls! :wave:

Lilesmom, I agree and think its totally nesting! Hope your treadmil comes early today!

I fell asleep last night so no bd Did an O test this morning and its still - but getting darker so I know its coming. I told dh to "release some men" this morning just to get rid of any dead spermies he may have. Looks like I am on track to maybe surge tomorrow or over the weekend which means I will have another folli scan tomorrow morning. Keeping my fingers crossed that the lining and everything is just right

How are you ladies doing?

 

[lilesMom]

yeah it must be nesting alright id say, i thought that happened much later though
obvs not it actually distresses me now if place is messy. most unlike me ha ha
id usually clean obvs but not loads and it would never usually bug me this much if things r out of place would be good timing if it happened u around moving time alright smiler its prob cos im home more too though

amy u have loads of time to catch egg
glad u get a look see to see how things are in ur body tomor , when u actually do Ov, ur right it wil give u a better pic of how things look for hopefully bfp xxxxxx
fx for u honey xxxxxx pma all the way xxxxxx

my t/mil arrived, its not as nice as it looks in pic but its grand, it works which is the main thing my OH put it together for me , then he goes sure why did u buy it i could have fixed ur old one if u gave me time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! arrrggghhh !!!!!!!
i asked him about 5 times cos he is usually great at fixing things and he said he couldnt do it cos he didnt know how, i said to my mom i thought he was just too lazy to do it but had no choice when he said repeatedly he couldnt do it.
so i started bawling for about half an hour he had peed me off but i think hormones took over then and i couldnt stop . stupid hormones.
im ok again now, i baked apple queen cakes and had 3 with tea they calmed me back down im stil only up 6 pounds, so im proud i have been so hungry all the time last week (and eating extra) or so i thought i would be loads more up

hope everyone is good xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[mommylov]

awwwwsilly oh! Im glad you got the new treadmil and thats great that you havnet put on that much at all! Hope you and bubs are nice and healthy and soon you will be in your 3rd tri. So crazy how time flies!

 

[lilesMom]

thanks babe, im gonna through an easy upset me patch, the water works are never too far away but then after im fine again
yeah least its here now and i can have my walks again
how u doin babe?

 

[mommylov]

Suprisingly ok right now lol... just anxious about my scan tomorrow DH and I were talking about wanting to get a treadmil or excercise bike or something. I think we are leaning towards treadmil so we'll see how long it takes us to get one. DH has to research EVERYTHING and see whats the best for us **eye roll** whereas Im just like "that one is fine, lets just get it!" ehehhe

 

[lilesMom]

im same as ur Dh, im afraid i like to look it up loads before deciding, this one was done in a hurry though its alright, its just a cheap one really but it will do for few years im hoping id go for treadmil , i have both and i never use the bike but always use the t/mil .

 

[mommylov]

So, we didnt bd last night. DH really wants to stick to dr's orders this time and says that if we dont fall pregnant this month, then next month he will listen to me. Woke up this morning with what I thought was O aches. Went to the dr for a follow up scan from tuesday and my uterine lining "looked great" and was at 12 which is awesome! She then goes to check the folli and tells me that it looks irregular. Before I could freak out she said "It almost looks like you are in the process of ovulating". I KNEW IT! I told DH after we left that we shouldve bd last night. We were contemplating going home to bd before we went to work this morning lol. The dr said that we are fine to bd when we get home and have time so thats the plan. She also said that if I dont fall pregnant this month, that she is going up the clomid to 100mg next month. She said from the looks of things, I should be fine with the increased dose. I hope I fall this month!

Daily to you all and happy friday!!

 

[lilesMom]

amy thats fab ur levels r great and she saw ur egg, magic imagine if u do catch this time, u can tell ur kid u saw him/her as an egg , ha ha xxxxxxxxxx
no reason why u cant get it this time honey, all conditions are right and spermies have loads of time to swim to egg cos it takes time to release anyway
so glad ur levels r great

 

[lilesMom]

i think my bub is def boy
my bro did the ring on string. it came out as boy
he puts wedding band on a string and hold over my wrist, it went totally back and forth . the funny thing is i could feel a pull on my wrist before it started moving and bub started kickin. the pully feeling and the kicking stopped when he took away the ring .

i told ye i dreamed of blue for a week before scan didnt i?
well the last 2 nts of that week i dreamed of a boy i was feeding and i heard a voice say , its not ur boy, its someone elses.
the next nt i dreamed there was a boy crawling on my parents bed and again i heard a voice saying its not ur boy.
turns out my bro and sil r preg and they reckon its a boy . they hadnt told anyone yet they only told me when i told um i had a feeling they needed their doppler back, im liking all my new messages

hugs and to all xxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[withlovemom]

Awww...Lilesmom..that is sooo cute....
They say all these dreams are like signs....Ur bub can b a boy..

Last week,My hubby dreamt two nights in a row abt us havin a baby girl..
Once i was feeding her..n once we were playing wid her in our house..
When he told me about it, i got sooooo excited....
I dont even know for sure yet if i m preggo or not..coz i v decided not to test till my due AF day.. But just d thought made me feel sooooooo good..

How is everyone else doin???
Hugs n baby dust to all....

 

[lilesMom]

withlovemom, fx its true, im a big believer in dreams xxxxxxxx
before i spotted with lile i had a dream a few times that i woke up bleeding after losing bub. i already had, bub had stopped growing, i just didnt know it. was so happy not to have that dream this time. i feel different with these dreams, they r more vivid and feel like message rather then dream. i have crazy dreams too that i know wont come true , ha ha
fx for u, would be so cool xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
sorry for my sievy brain but when is af due again hon? xxxx
im hoping she never shows for u xxx

hi and hugs to all. xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[withlovemom]

withlovemom, fx its true, im a big believer in dreams xxxxxxxx
before i spotted with lile i had a dream a few times that i woke up bleeding after losing bub. i already had, bub had stopped growing, i just didnt know it. was so happy not to have that dream this time. i feel different with these dreams, they r more vivid and feel like message rather then dream. i have crazy dreams too that i know wont come true , ha ha
fx for u, would be so cool xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
sorry for my sievy brain but when is af due again hon? xxxx
im hoping she never shows for u xxx

hi and hugs to all. xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

hiii lilesmom..af is due 2day..i took a test early morning..got a BFN.. I m a little down..lets hope she does not show up....

 

[Smiler82]

to you withlovemom. I truly hope AF stays away.

mommylov that is pretty cool you saw yourself ovulating I hope you managed to BD in time. As lilesmom says it would be so cool to be able to say you saw your baby when they were being ovulated haha

lilesmom you guessed your bro and SIL would need the doppler back?? You are freaky haha Sorry you've been going through an emotional stage totally normal tho I am sure!

AFM today is the day I turn 12 weeks. Eek. Scan is on Weds and am starting to get a little scared. I know I haven't had any bleeding or anything but I'm starting to worry that they might say something is badly wrong with the baby, or just terrified I'm going to go through the awful experience again of being told there's no heartbeat. I'm trying to focus on positive thoughts and how we're going to tell family if everything is ok, and trying to imagine how nice it'll be to share our news, but still it's hard not to worry. I just feel like we're so close to some kind of imaginary finish line and we're about to crash into the final hurdle!!

We'll be having the test for Down's as well - that's a blood test isn't it? Does anyone know how long it takes to get the results?

 

[mommylov]

Thanks smiler. We bd fri, yesterday and today so now it's in gods hands. I start progesterone today and have progesterone bloodwork this Friday. So exciting that you are at 12 weeks! I'm anxious for your scan and know that everything will be great.

 

[lilesMom]

[hiii lilesmom..af is due 2day..i took a test early morning..got a BFN.. I m a little down..lets hope she does not show up....

hey sorry guys my internet network was down for 2 days, yucky.
sorry honey, hugs, still early though , im gonna read on and still hoping for good news xxxxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

smiler hugs honey, i know how ur feeling, i wanted to have pma but i was so scared xxxx totally natural xxxxxxx
fx for great scan for u tomro xxxxxxxxxxx
another friend on another thread just had that test done , is it the maternt21 or something like that? if its the same test , she says it will be back in 8-10 days xxxxxxxxxx

mommylov fx for u honey xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

nothing new with me, bub was super quiet over weekend , i got a bit freaked, i was poking my belly and everything. but when i had a bath i got a reaction so i was ok then, he is moving away again now and my tummy is bigger so i think he was just having a sleepy growing phase xxxxxxxxxx

hope everyone is well xxxxxxxxxx

 

[Smiler82]

Thanks lilesmom Surprisingly calm today and zipping through my work, which is good. Not sure how I will feel tonight! Speaking of dreams I've had two weird dreams where I thought I was losing the baby There was blood but then it stopped and nothing happened. Think I'm just thinking about something happening too much and is coming through in my dreams :/

Thanks yeah I posted a new thread and most ppl say about 10 days to hear back. I wasn't sure whether to wait for the results before telling people but 10 days is quite long. Telling people isn't going to change the result really but I do kind of feel superstitious about it!!

DH says my belly is growing so just trying to focus on all the positives we have at the moment and just hope they continue

Aww that must've been really freaky to not feel bubs for a while I've also heard that if you want to wake baby up drink a really cold drink and it can shock them awake Sounds a bit mean but worth it just to check they're ok! xx

 

[lilesMom]

smiler i think thats worry hon, i had a dream a few weeks back that the baby was tryin to exit through my tummy and i was tryint to shove its hands and legs back in while telling it to stay in or it would die. was yucky dream but i know not gonna be real xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
fx for lovely scan xxxxxxxxx
yeah i would just tell people, id say u wil burst if u dont hee hee

i tried the cold drink cos it does work all the time espeacially if sugary like oj or something, even that didnt work which was why i was gettin worried im grand now again, he is back to normal , but in slightly different place in my tummy. thank god

 

[Smiler82]

Oh wow that must've been really scary. Do you still use a doppler? I can't decide whether I'd want to use one or not. Sounds like he was just having a snooze whilst growing

 

[mommylov]

Hi girls! Just wanted to send sticky to everyone! Day#2 of prgesterone and 3-4dpo. Im nervous but somewhat calm this cycle.. its really weird. I think since this was the first cycle on clomid and I didnt use the digital OPK's I normally use (Used the cheapies this time) makes me feel like this cycle is a bust. I dont know why but I am contributing that to my sense of calm. Its like Im not getting anxious or excited or anything because Im just waiting for the next cycle to start. So strange.