*** Positive Mental Attitude TTC - Anyone joining us? ***

[lilesMom]

babybemine hoping things work out well for u this cycle xxxxx

i second smiler on the meditation and deep breathing, i was doin it while ttc and still doin it now, helps a lot with keeping calm and on top of stress and worry xxx

smiler walking around town is tiring, its different to going for a walk, i find it more tiring
i started back swimming last week, i hadnt been in years, its lovely
i went 3 times last week, im gonna try and go twice a week, our local pool does a deal where if u go at 3 o clock during d week its only 3e sweet
my swimsuit is only barely fittin me though, the tummy is ok , its my boobs that r in trouble, i cant find cheap mat swimsuit, i havent looked very hard either though
im trying out swimming for few weeks first to see if i will keep it up and be worth buyin one, but then i wont be wearing it after so.....
im tryin to spend less as my savings r nearly gone now.
no news of redundancy, it was just one of those rumours, doh!!
end of this yr would be better for me anyway.

amy hurray for pma , hugs , xxxx
fx for clomid and good luck to win out for u this cycle xxxxxxxxxx
u so will get ur lovely Lo soon honey, u totally deserve it xxxxxxxx
u will make a great mom xxxxx
i too was worried d and c would cause me trouble but it is so rare for that to happen and with all ur tests u would know by now if it had , hugs xxxxxxx
so hope this is ur time honey, il be praying for bfp xxxxx

hope everyone is good xxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

oh and amy walking is meant to be great for ttc, both for stress control and for keeping evrything in ur body fit and healthy without straining ur body xx

shelves are mostly done in bubs room, but yet to be started in our room. he is making um from scratch cutting d wood and all himself so its more time consuming
plus he is making a whole wall and a half of shelves in both rooms so its a good deal of work . but give it a week and they will be good to go, varnish and all i reckon

 

[mommylov]

Aww thats great that he is wanting to make the shelves and is putting in so much effort What a sweety!

I hope you and the rest of the girls are right. This is just killing me slowly Im banking on the luck of the Irish this month I pulled an angel card yesterday and pulled "release". Basically told me to let got of the past so Im trying.

 

[lilesMom]

i got that card so much for months after lile, xxxxxxxx
i recently have started doin my angel cards again, i neglected them for few weeks there, i dont know why cos i love um xxxxxx not neglected angels , i talk to um every day just d cards xxxxx
i really really hope u get ur Lo this cycle hon, its great u have pma,
maybe u do just need to release and it will happen for u.
it could be release of tension and fear too hon xxxxxxx
what u focus on is what u get , so try focus on Positive stuff and u seeing ur bfp in a few weeks time, xxxx
i knwo no one can be upbeat all the time expeacially in the middle of heartbreak and ttc, but we can try and keep it up as much as we can, xxxx
im sending my pma vibes ur way all the time chick, if we all do it they gotta listen to us xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[mommylov]

Thanks Laura

On a random note, dh's best friend just got engaged and the wedding is in NY Oct 26. If I get pregnant this month, I will be 8 months preggers so I wouldnt be able to go and he told me that the bach party is in Vegas Sep 5-9. Then he says "Oh wait, I dont want you pregnant and alone for that long. Maybe we can fly mom (my mom) out and if that doesnt work then I will just fly out fri night and come back sun morning". At first he told me that he just wouldnt go and I told him no way that he HAD to go. I would hate for him to miss out on that but he is such a doll for thinking of me and future bubs I swear, Im the luckiest girl Its so hard to plan things in life without knowing whats going to happen. For all I know I wont be pregnant then and I can totally go. I told him just to book his NY and Vegas flights and we'll book my NY flight later if I am able to go.

 

[lilesMom]

dont be booking any flights amy xxx
ur right u got a good hubby but he also has a great wife xxx
dont forget the luck goes both ways with ye
dont know if u remember but after i lost lile i was the same i wanted to go lourdes with my mom but my doc said dont book anything cos if i was early preg it wouldnt be safe maybe to go
glad i didnt book now . hope u dont get to go for all the right reasons xxxxxxx
u wil def be preg long before that xxxxxxxxx

 

[mommylov]

I hope so!!!!

 

[lilesMom]

we all hope so xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
but u wil xxx

 

[Smiler82]

Gosh lots of chatting last night I'm behind!

Mommylov I totally had the same fears as you. After the d and c I had weird bleeding for 12 weeks afterwards and was terrified they'd damaged my womb. Lilesmom is right though, it is really rare and I think if anything was wrong you'd have figured it out by now So pleased for you having lots of PMA this cycle! Hang onto that feeling! Walking after work sounds great. I used to have to walk lots just as part of my commute, but I did enjoy it. It's nice to get some space and switch from 'work brain' to 'home brain'. If you're interested, the mediation I did was on iTunes and called Visualizing Pregnancy by Kathy Freston.

Aww that's so sweet about your DH saying he wouldn't go to Vegas whilst you're pregnant Agree it's best not to book flights just yet, just see how the next few months go.

Lilesmom I never thought about the boob issue in a swimsuit haha. Not sure mine is up to the job, better check before I go! Had too much work on today so couldn't go I don't know if you have sports direct in Ireland but I did see one in our local shop for £9.99. Is online too, just checked! Might just be a UK offer I don't know but worth a look maybe.

Shame the redundancy thing was a rumour...how come it works out better if it happens at the end of the year?

I haven't done my angel cards for ages...I just did them and the first two were about listening to them more and asking them more often! Naughty smiler Mommylov I kept getting the 'time to go' card before I got pregnant, which is kind of similar to the release card. It's about asking for help with grief and that you're coming to the end of cycle, which initially I thought was telling me it was time to accept I'd never get pregnant, but now I think it was trying to tell me I was coming to the end of a difficult cycle i.e. ttc troubles.

PMA PMA PMA xxxx

 

[mommylov]

I LOVE angel cards! They have given me so much peace. Im relieved to hear you say that you were pulling a similar card and thinking the same thing as me. Lilesmom said that she pulled that card as well. The first thought that came to my head was "OMG, Im never going to have kids?!?!?" but now Im starting to feel better that I wasnt the only one thinking this way. Thanks for the meditation info, I just bought it and its downloading right now Hope its the best $9.99 ever spent! lol

 

[babybemine]

Worried as I have a small bump on right side lower abdomen. Has anyone ever had this. I know it is too early for baby but this was also the side I had the follies. Thinking fibroids or cyst....I am scared. Anyone else have this?

 

[Smiler82]

No, sorry But I think a cyst wouldn't give an outward bump...my SIL had one the size of a grapefruit and I don't think it protruded. How big is it? Could be a blocked pore or sweat gland, something like that. Is it painful? If it's soft it could even be a hernia?? I would get it checked hun.

 

[mommylov]

Babybemine, Im so sorry Ive never heard of that before so I am of no help I tried to google it to see what I would find and some say thats a sign of pregnancy depending on your size but nothing too specific was mentioned If its a solid lump, I would def put a call into my dr to see what they say.

 

[lilesMom]

smiler thanks hon, i think i wont buy any awhile with swimsuit and see how i go, i havent popped out of it yet anyway hee hee dont think we have sports direct, i dont like buying things liike that online cos ive no clue what size to get , also reluctant to pay money for somwthing il only need for few months
i was consoling myself with the end of the year being better in a way
i wil be paid mat leave for 6 months which would take me to nearly end of year , so id get mat pay and then redundancy pay id prefer to just have it sorted and know when and if it was coming but im gonna go back to ignoring the rumours now
it will come when it is meant to
hope alls well with u hon xxx

amy i think its to release ur fear of not getting bfp and it will happen xxxx

hi andhugs to all xxxx

 

[lilesMom]

sorry posted cos i thought i was caught up, hope ur ok babybemine, im not sure what it could be hon, id ring my doc to check just to put ur mind at ease xxxxx

 

[babybemine]

It is not so much like a lump or anything like a pimple.....it is more like it is more swollen on that side....

 

[Smiler82]

Have no idea...maybe a side effect of femara? Does the box have a list of possible side effects? I'd ring your doc and ask x

 

[lilesMom]

hope ur ok babybemine, id def ask doc to be sure xxxxxx

hi and hugs to all xxxxxxxxx

 

[babybemine]

11dpo bfn. AF due in 4 days.

 

[lilesMom]

its still early hon , dont give up yet xxxxxxxxx