*** Positive Mental Attitude TTC - Anyone joining us? ***

[DiscoRia]

We have shutters here, so can block out every shred of light from outside and I have some bright white fairy lights left over from the wedding that I was going to try out, but can I find them? NOPE! They're probably still at my in-laws place

It's an interesting theory and I've seen it mentioned briefly in a couple of books on fertility, I'm so tempted to give it a go, but DH hates sleeping with too much light and will likely think I'm a loony if I suggest it. Yep, baby crazy gets the blame once more :b

 

[Smiler82]

Oh I had it slightly wrong...orangey/red light is ok before ovulation but during the time you want to ovulate it should be white light

https://lunaception.net/environment.html

 

[babybemine]

BFN today. Tested early.

 

[lilesMom]

babybemine doesnt rule u out, its still early hon xxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Smiler82]

Oh sorry to hear that x

 

[DiscoRia]

Yep, little one could have implanted late or your hcg levels aren't enough to show up on a test. You're not out of the game until AF shows up *hugs*

 

[Smiler82]

Are you going to test again babybemine?

I had a temp rise this morning, so I don't know if I ov'd yesterday. But I got my +OPK yesterday; assume you can get a +OPK the same day you ovulate, as you don't know which part of the surge you're catching? Will have to see what my temp does tomorrow. I'm still feeling stuffy and snotty etc so it could be that!

How is everyone else today? xx

 

[lilesMom]

im quite sleepy still but good xxx
work rang and i can come back mon, part time for now and see later yey

 

[Smiler82]

Yay! That's great news Lilesmom

 

[babybemine]

Well I was beginning to write that I was going to wait until next week to test, and in mid type I stood up to pee and decided to test. I used the FRER and it says Guess I am out until next month. Waiting for AF to show so I can start over.

 

[lilesMom]

smiler thanks xxx

babybemine its stil early hon, last time i was preg i never got +ve on frer only on tesco cheapies, this was when af was due, for some strange reason frer just didnt work for me. i bought um in a box of 2 and got 2 free with them. i used all 4 and never got +ve on um, even though i was preg and used one on day af was due (and some before it was due) while tesco cheapie had a faint line...... im the only one i ever heard sayin this, most people love frer but its true xxxxxxxxxxx

 

[babybemine]

Well I still have my hopes up. Could still happen for me yet. No Af so far.

 

[lilesMom]

are u usually very regular? fx for u hon, exciting xxxx
my friend on here in another thread didnt get her bfp til a week after af was due xx
so fx for u xxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

hi guys
discoria , hope ur feeling better hon and the dizzy has left u xxxxxx
u find out if u can ttc this month xxxxxx

smiler hopes all s well and ur not stressing urself out, nice calm zen TWW xxxxxx

hopeful how r u and bumpy? all good i hope xxxxxx

to all xxxxxxx

 

[Smiler82]

Thanks Lilesmom Pretty sure I am 2dpo now Going to DTD later though just in case haha At the mo I'm feeling alright, quite chilled and able to take a ce sera sera attitude....ask me again in a week's time tho, lol

Yeah, haven't heard from you in a while Hopeful! How is everything going?

Lilesmom you all psyched up to start work again on Monday? How many days a week will you do?

 

[lilesMom]

glad ur feeling good hon its the latter half that is harder isnt it? but hopefully ur good attitude stays with u xxxx
yeah im looking forward to it but teeensy bit nervous cos i havent been there in so long. im out 3.5 months now but nothing much changes inthere so il be fine

 

[babybemine]

Two negatives so far but hopefully tested to early.
Hoping to convince DH to buy some tests at the bulk store. Hoping they have them there. If not, going to pick up some at the local stores.
Hoping to wait this one out but not that easy for me to do. AF due today. FX she stays away.

 

[lilesMom]

hi guys
i borrowed a doppler off my bro and Sil
i spent ages trying to find hb but then....
the doppler died , i changed d batteries and found it fast enough
yey, 166 xxxxxxxxxx
whoop whoop

 

[Hopeful335]

Hey guys sorry did not mean to disappear just been one busy week! Went to both sets of parents, mon then tue, then cinema wed, out for dinner Thur and then Xmas do last night!! Good job I've a bit more energy!! Started gradually telling ppl-scary,weird but nice.

I've tried the Doppler a few times-little luck though. Caught hb twice for 10-20 seconds then it moves and I can't find it-think it doesn't like being poked! At ultrasound she struggled to get nt measurements and pics as it would not stop wriggling!!!

Glad you've ov'd Smiler I've been kinda reading and following. I do have everything crossed for you!!!!! Babybemine, you're not out yet!!! Abd discoria what did your decide?? You could have been given antibiotics that were safe I've had them during preg that are preg safe so surely ov safe?? Anyway hope it's all worked out!

Take care ladies thinking of you all! I have delightful thrush (can't remember if I mentioned that last time??) pretty much gone but not nice (never ever had before) and am constipated (sorry tmi) but apart from that loads more energy now and v v little ms every now and again. X x x

 

[Hopeful335]

Oh forgot to say! Rang one of my oldest bestest friends to tell her my news (she doesn't live near me now) and she announced she was also pg........19 weeks!! Cos of my 2 mc she didn't wanna tell me and had set her 20 week scan as her deadline hoping I'd give her good news before the -sweet I guess!! And well I did at 19 weeks -she was relieved as she new probs we'd had and she'd just dropped on unplanned! Funny eh? x x