positive opk @ 8dpo...HELP!!!

[L.E.]

Well this morning's temp was the highest it has been in 2 weeks... not high enough to mean anything, but enough to make me scratch my head.

 

[mzswizz]

atleast there was a temp rise. let's see what happens in the next 2 days.and he is going to different submarine schools

AFM, im on cd8 today and AF is still here but the flow is getting lighter so thats a plus DH graduated today and I am so proud of him. I get to take his certificate and his medal home with him to put it in a safe place until we move into our new place once he is stationed. DH hasnt gotten information about when he starts his next school yet. But it will be on the same base he is currently stationed at. Hoping to gt news about when they are transferring him to surface instead of submarine though. It's all a waiting game. Also, my nepew graduated boot camp today. So its a celebration today. Today has been a good day. Im hoping AF will stop by tomorrow though but we shall see. Well, thats all for now.

 

[L.E.]

Congrats to your DH (and nephew)! I hope your AF stops so you can have a couple days AF-free to enjoy time with DH.

I really feel that if I did O, it was Tuesday, and if I keep with higher temps, FF agrees. I can't say with any certainty that I did, but today I have (TMI alert) a lot of clumpy cm (which is my equivalent of sticky). I did have a little bit on Wednesday and I had marked it that way, but there was so little of it that day, I changed it to dry. If it keeps up, I would be more willing to consider that I did O. This kind of CM is very rare for me. The only time I remember having a lot of it was back in Jan with my chemical. I think it happened starting at about 2 or 3 dpo then too, so we'll see.

I'm also feeling really shaky. I thought maybe I needed to eat, so I ate a little something, but it could be from the cappuccino I had earlier. I think I had a bigger glass than usual (but I don't drink it every day either). So hopefully it's just that. So far today, I haven't noticed a headache, so that's good. I hope it stays away. I was really hoping it was hormonal in a good way, and the fact that my temp was up some today and the headache is awol could be good... like maybe I had a big estrogen surge and that's why my temp went up a little, back down, and now had a bigger jump. Just me tossing around ideas lol. If I did O on Tues, we would have a chance, though not the best timing possible. It would be 2 and 4 days before O that we BD. If it happened to be yesterday (Thurs), chances would be slim at 4 and 6 days. We've been really tired and not in the mood, so we didn't force it.... well except for when we tried and failed. I guess it is possible there were a few swimmers that time, though. Ok enough blabbering. I need to lay down for a few. Blah.

 

[L.E.]

Quick update on me: Felt better after just a little while, and still haven't really noticed a headache today.

 

[L.E.]

low temp this morning... No O I guess. Sigh. Oh and I woke up with a cold sore without warning. I usually have an idea that one is coming and this one just hit out of no where.

 

[L.E.]

Ha talking to myself again today lol. CP is very high and cm is still that clumpy creamy kind and tons of it! The only time I had this much and more than 1 day was after O in Jan. So my body is weird. What's new?! LOL

 

[L.E.]

 

[staceyj83]

maybe you did but your temps are not being nice idk

not much new here was out all day shopping we are done christmas shopping and birthday shopping for 2 of my nieces one has a birthday on the 18th my jelly she lives with us and one is on the 21st we got the tree done the stockings done and lights up on the house so now im ready to enjoy the rest of dec just waiting on dh gift to come in yayy

 

[L.E.]

Well that was a productive day, Stacey! My DH was gone all day yesterday at a guy's day board game thing. He never does anything, but I was a bit irritated that it lasted over 12 hours. I was sooooo bored yesterday and was waiting and waiting for DH to come home... ate dinner late, waited to put DS to bed, etc. DS just wanted to play on the iPad and then played Minecraft on the Xbox. I asked him if he wanted to go out to dinner with me and he didn't... just wanted to stay home and play his games. I didn't really feel like going out either, but still. I say next time (if there is one) that DH wants to do the game thing, I'm actually planning something for me and DS to do so I won't be so bored. I did get all my laundry done, including our bedding, picked up just a little, and got our living room and kitchen swept and mopped. So I did do something yesterday.

Ok so today's temp was up again. What's with this every-other-day thing? I'm gonna start having mood swings. Yesterday I felt emotional all day as it was... woke up with the low temp, added the cold sore out of nowhere, DH gone all day... I swear I cried at the littlest things on TV lol. Plus I felt like an evil woman when I was waiting to eat dinner, and then it stuck with me for a little while last night. It reminded me a little bit of my Clomid moodiness.

Well, I've got to get ready for church. I hope you have a nice day. Stay tuned to tomorrow's program to see what's in store for my temp.

 

[staceyj83]

that could all be good things i know at the start i was really moodie with alice before i got my bfp use to feel like i could eat everything in the house then by 7dpo bb started hurting and cramps ill be keeping an eye out

 

[L.E.]

Yep just waiting it out.... lots of creamy cm today in case anyone was wondering . Still following almost exactly like January/February, so we'll see. Oh and I just realized that today was my highest temp this entire cycle so far. Interesting at least. I felt hot when I woke up, but I only used a sheet (no blanket) most of the night.

I think it's nap time...I love Sunday naps.

PS- Happy 300 pages to us!!!!!!

 

[staceyj83]

Dang 300 woohoo

 

[mzswizz]

We're at 300 pages already?! Yay!!!!

L.E. im thinking maybe you had a random fall back temp when it dipped. It could be possible. Sounds like you been keeping busy.

Stacey-i have to start on xmas shopping. Dh and i just been pretty much busy with each other that it looks like it may just be a we spoil each other xmas

AFM, today is cd11 and looks like AF will be gone today. DH and i have been dtd for the past few days now and i think that helped. Now its only light pink and scanty so not a flow anymore. More cm than blood Today, i am also leaving back to Florida Im going to miss dh but i know in 2 weeks he wil be down so im not that sad. DH spent the night here so he can give me a nice farewell. On the bright side of things...MIL told DH that she hasnt moved in yet. She said her lawyer told her to not move and stay in unless a sheriff comes and they are trying to get things sorted because they think its a scam so its a possibility she might not move at all and keep her house Well i hope so for her sake. I enjoyed my time here. We watched the movies Here comes the boom, Sinister and Alex Cross. All great movies. I saw dh graduate. And we spent some lovely time together. As for the BCPs..well im on the last week of the 1st month Sunday, i start month 2 so time is flying. Cant believe 4 weeks passed that fast already. Now i got my doc appts on wednesday and thursday. I see the ob/gyn..well actually the midwife, on thursday for pap smear and u/s to check the cysts. And i see the hematologist on wednesday. So atleast i can give the midwife info on whats going on at the hematologist etc so they can go hand and hand and be updated with everything well thats all for now.

 

[L.E.]

That all sounds great, MsSwizz! I know you're looking forward to the appts and seeing DH again in 2 weeks. And the MIL staying at her own house is a big bonus too! Be sure to let us know what happens at your appts.

My OBGYN's office called me back today but I was sleeping and didn't hear the phone, so I need to call them back. She said she tried to call Fri but couldn't leave a message... which means she tried my cell phone and not my home phone... grrr. But now I don't know what to think of my temps. I'd like to think they're showing an upward trend, but they also look a bit erratic. My earlier temps were pretty calm and now they've gone crazy. At least my temp didn't drop all the way down this morning. I will say last night there was a lot of taking covers off and putting them back on. I don't know if or how much that affects my temps, but I sort of figured my temp would be lower again today and follow the pattern (though I'd hoped not).

 

[L.E.]

The nurse called me back earlier and was super-nice. She said the doc said temps are unreliable. She rattled off getting the mid-cycle ultrasound and progesterone test (and I told her the u/s story and that I'm waaaayy past the u/s stage now)... but that I may have O'd 6 days ago. We both agreed to me waiting a week to rule out pregnancy, then I will take a name-brand test and call them to start Provera again next week. So exactly what I expected. I don't want to drag this cycle out any further if I didn't O. I do think I'll wait til the middle of next week to give ample time for a bfp or AF in case O did happen. I would much rather see AF instead of doing the Provera again. Of course a BFP would be better. But if O didn't happen, then I'll be moving onto the next cycle via Provera, and would of course have AF for the entire Christmas weekend. It's better than having it for my birthday the following week, though. I'd rather not ring in the new year with ending a failed Clomid cycle. Being into my new cycle sounds much better. A bfp with a sticky bean would be the best though.

 

[mzswizz]

Im hoping all goes well for you L.E. and you get a bfp this cycle and wont have to get on Provera. Im hoping I dont have to deal with another long AF when DH

 

[mzswizz]

Im hoping all goes well for you L.E. and you get a bfp this cycle and wont have to get on Provera. Im hoping I dont have to deal with another long AF when DH comes down or ever again.

 

[L.E.]

I hope your AF stays gone for at least another 3 weeks. This one was plenty long enough for you!!

 

[mzswizz]

L.E. i hope it dont show at all. I hope this 2nd month of BCPs comes into effect.

 

[mzswizz]

AFM, im cd12 today and AF is just dragging out her stay. Its pretty much not more left in there but its finding a way to still linger. I have on a panty liner and barely anything gets on there plus its only there when I wipe. AF needs to just go already. Hoping it ends today or tomorrow because I suppose to get the pap smear & u/s on thursday so if its still here....i wont be able to get the pap smear and would have to reschedule for that. Well, tomorrow is my hemotologist appt so will update about that when I come home from the appt. Yesterday, dh helped me through an emotional time. I came home to a living room that I couldn't walk through. I mean literally, boxes and furniture everywhere I was pissed and then kept getting calls from my mom telling me what I SHOULD be doing in MY LIFE and it was just sooo much stress and anger and I just broke down crying. Glad dh was on the phone to lift me up and made me feel strong again. It's a brand new me today and I am seriously going to have a stern talk with my MIL because my house looks like a storage unit or a hoarder house now and I dont even feel like this is my home and I just feel dirty walking through all this crap. ugggghhhhhhhhh Hopefully today is a better day.