Positive Thoughts Thread!

[tsyhanochka]

Honestly you couldn't pay me enough to do a big white wedding with my family. I always dreamed of eloping as long as I can remember. Running away with the love of my life will make me so happy even if we have to come home and back to reality! lol

 

[Merle82]

yeah we ditched the big wedding, disappeared to barbados just me OH and my daughter from previous relationship, jus the three of us totally chilled and fun wedding day! eloping is the way forward!! x

 

[Yammas]

Wow that sounds beautiful!!! *sigh* at this rate my wedding will be a looonnnggg time coming yet havent even starting saving for it yet and its not gonna be cheap either despite OH claiming he can get it all done for a couple grand

 

[tsyhanochka]

Well if he says he can get it done...let him stress over the budget.; )

My AF seems to be finished and its only CD3. I count from the first day with red flow not the light pink or brown. Its been super light too.
But fairly crampy.
This is one of the shortest af I have had. I want to be positive but I am worried something is wrong with me. It would be mice not to be preggers on our trip but at the same time I want this so much. Sorry for the downer talk.

 

[Merle82]

I had a short AF last cycle only 4days and was pretty crampy too!
try not to stress, take it as it comes, ur doing all u can with eating healthy & excercising xx

 

[Yammas]

came for me too yesterday super crampy and dizzy yesterday but glad to be feeling much better today oh well onto the next cycle

 

[tsyhanochka]

Happy to have my thoughts on trip and elopement planning than baby making. Sex is fun again!

 

[Yammas]

Yay soo excited for you Tsyhanochka!!!

Hoping I'm over the worst for this feeling soo tired today its unreal but happy that my OH has been looking after me all day cant beleive its our 3 year anniversary in less than two weeks its gone way to fast, and I'm running out of time to plan something nice for him

 

[tsyhanochka]

I hate tough AFs they make me feel so off for days. OH and I have been together for almost 3 years too!

Thanks for your kind thoughts.

 

[tsyhanochka]

Happy thought for.the day.... its a funny place to be when you can't wait for your MIL to visit so your sister is.forced to.move out!! LOL

I just realized this and it made me smile.

 

[Merle82]

hi all hope u are all doing well!
results of my OPK seemed to get positive results between CD14-CD16 but tying down OH on those days to BD was near on impossible without giving the game away. was pretty frustrated i couldnt just tell him why it was important to get it on that day! I tried my best but little i could do to persuade a stressed and tired hubby xx
No 2ww for me ive no chance!!!
need to focus on next month, which seems very, very far away. xx

 

[Yammas]

Aww hun you never know it could still happen hun

Good news over here too booked our first appointment with the fertility clinic for august 1st, I should be happy about it but I kinda hope im pregnant before then as I dont know if I like the sound of having people intervene in what should be a natural process that and the fact that all the information on the site is aimed at female factor infertility instead of male

On the other hand its one step closer to our first lil bean!!!

 

[tsyhanochka]

I'm not sure if I would go to the specialist. I think I may just to find out what was wrong... but I don't know if I would go so far as get interventions. I guess I'll cross that when/if we get there.

Hope you get your BFP soon. We're in the 'fertile time' for me according to my calendar. I still don't temp. I already feel like all the BD is a bit of a chore some mornings... not OH though... he's loving this! We opt for morning because my sister is here and she's a sound sleeper by morning...and OH is a morning person... so I wake up to seductive kisses quite frequently... I shouldn't complain LOL

HUGS to you. We'll get there!

 

[Yammas]

Well its been 17ish months (started ntnp jan last year) so were gonna go and see what they say but I dont think Ill take clomid or anything like that especially as its not necessary if all my results are normal. Im probably working myself up for nothing.

We never bd in the morning its always before we go to sleep as OH gets up at 5 am when hes on the early shift so I let him get all the sleep he can he is definately not a morning person lol. I havent woken up to kisses in a while lucky you lol!!!

 

[Merle82]

Hey hope u get some reasons/answers Yammas, best of luck with it. My positive action this month is gonna be to focus on healthy eating and weight loss. Setting myself a goal of 10lbs this time next month!! Got a friends wedding in 5wks so another good excuse to lose some extra weight and make sure I'm as healthy as possible! With regards the BDing times, we r night people thru the wk but wknds its morning time!! Lol xx

 

[tsyhanochka]

Good luck checking things out yammas hope you are right and its nothing.
Merle losing weight is seething I need to consider too. I have about 20 lbs to lose to get to the healthy bmi

Trying to be more relaxed myself. I may take some time from the boards to keep my mind elsewhere. Check back for sure though. Hugs!!

 

[Merle82]

Merle losing weight is seething I need to consider too. I have about 20 lbs to lose to get to the healthy bmi

Trying to be more relaxed myself. I may take some time from the boards to keep my mind elsewhere. Check back for sure though. Hugs!!

yeah in all honesty my big goal needs to be 25lbs but bite size chunks is how to do it, ive done it in the past i can do it again. diet is not bad its just portion control and lack of exercise!!

i end to keep my board use to one or two threads that way i dont get too into it..... hugs and enjoy BD time for now!!! xx

 

[Yammas]

Thanks ladies hoping I wont need to go if I get a first lol

Good luck with your weight loss ladies Im the opposite of you guys though I need to gain weight, just got on the scales last night to find I reached my target I set in jan took me 6 months to do it but hoping I can maintain for now and then maybe set a new target.

This site is like my facebook im always on it at some point in the day lol

 

[MercyBless]

Hi Im new here! Looking for positivity too so love this thread

AF arrived this morning..2days early Boohoo

On to the 8 month then..With Positivity obviously

x

 

[Yammas]

Hi Mercy

I hate it when af comes early it always throws off my next cycle and I tend to vary slightly as it is.

Good luck for month 8