Praying for a 2012 BFP and 2013 Baby!!!

[30mummyof1]

Yes gives me confidence in the hotel at least!

 

[30mummyof1]

Just to update you, she called! Apparently had no signal where she was last night and swimming lessons for kids this morning so she's happy to swap rooms. Just hope there's one suitable for 2 extra beds now!

 

[deafgal01]

Hope there is one for her family.

 

[30mummyof1]

That's great news about the tests dg, so when do you think you'll be ready to start?? So excited for you

 

[deafgal01]

Oh gee I don't know I can't do it this cycle for sure as the sperm sample isn't ready. July cycle looks out already because I will be ovulating while on vacation. I just can't win. I'm hoping for maybe Aug or Sept but we'll see what happens with the donor tests first. That's the last big thing we're waiting on I believe.

 

[30mummyof1]

ahh cool, well Aug/Sept isn't too long away is it.

 

[deafgal01]

30- I might have to wait til dec if they do the required 6 months quarantine time which means I cannot use til after that point.

 

[30mummyof1]

ahh that wouldn't be so good, but if that's the case you can still say you're starting this year

 

[deafgal01]

Yes but I want to be pregnant now. Not in dec and suffer thru summer!

 

[30mummyof1]

I know hun, and I really hope you are soon. You might be ok in the heat, you don't know? I struggled more with the heat with Harry than I did Thomas!

 

[deafgal01]

True but it gets hot here in the summer time, the hottest it can be is in the 90s and that's on a hot summer day with the heat wave.

 

[MrsPTTC]

Yay for sorting things out with your bridesmaid rach!

DG why is it they need quarantine again? What exactly do they do & am I right this isn't a normal procedure clinics do??

TMI but just had to share! DH & I had fab last night & I was & still am so horny! Now the reason I am so over the moon is if you remember we had a crap sex life, we only bd'd cos of TTC, I had a really low sex drive cos sex hurt me (dyspareunia - spelling?) & we hardly DTD for years, I just used to satisfy DH in other ways I always hoped that though dyspareunia is psychological that childbirth would loosen me up & it has My sex drive was still low til all this EWCM came last week (& has pretty much continued for days ) but something came over me last night & even tonight I was begging DH but he was too tired! I'm wondering if my hormones have taken a while after BF'ing to go down & this is the result? Hope it stays any case I'm on x

 

[MrsPTTC]

Though hating my naked body at minute, have big scar down my thigh off when I scalded myself taking fish out of microwave a few weeks ago, I have bruises all over am so clumsy, still have line down tummy which should go... Boobs are small & soft & also have a muffin top urgh! x

 

[deafgal01]

FDA rules so yes normal procedure here but I am impatient. they can bypass it by running test every time a sample is given and retest before using it on me.

Anyways- the normal and recommended procedure is they take a sample and do an exam, they freeze that sample and leave it frozen for 6 months. At end of that time, the sample is thawed out and they look to see how many survived plus diseases screening.

They can do similar procedure where they freeze the sample (into 3 vials) and retest each sample before using in me. I wouldn't have to wait and they would use as soon they know the test results from that sample.

 

[30mummyof1]

Yay, for ! Sounds quite like us to be honest! Did you remember the condom? or will you be in the 2ww??!

Yes the post baby body is not a great one. It does improve over the months, boobs get a bit firmer again, the line disappears eventually, I bruise myself all the time too! but just remember it did a remarkable thing and It bothers us way more than it bother's them. My oh has agreed to a boob job after kids, but still says I don't need one!

wow dg, there so much to it.

 

[30mummyof1]

Thought i'd make my avatar a wedding themed one, it's the bridge just outside the hotel.

 

[MrsPTTC]

Yes DG it sounds very complicated! When will you know if you have to wait the 6months or not?

Ooh rach it looks lovely! Pleased to hear bbs get firmer! I too am tempted to get a boob job once I'm done . No we ALWAYS remember the condom, always have x

 

[30mummyof1]

Good girl!

 

[deafgal01]

at this point, the donor is trying to get his appt lined up but so far they've been playing phone tag- he's calling them more than they are trying to call him so I'm thinking if nothing before noon, I'll go and chase up on the matter for him because it is frustrating to be calling a place and get no live person to schedule the appt with.

30-OMG, that is beautiful! You'll have to get wedding photos done with that bridge!!!!!

MrsP- glad that sex life is much better now for you. I hope it stays for you.

 

[30mummyof1]

Oh what a pain dg, I hate not being able to get things sorted out

Thanks, yes definitely going to get some bridge ones done. We're in need of some pics for our walls as well, so hopefully we'll get some nice ones to choose from.