Pregnancy after our preemies support thread!

[PrincessPea]

Bob, that is FANTASTIC news!!!!!! Huge congratulations!!!!!!!!

 

[Lianne1986]

congrats hun!

as silly as this sounds i want to beback in this thread as a preggo lady

 

[AP]

me too lianne, as much as i kinda dont want to i also cant handle the fact that Toris meant to be our last. its hit me quite bad even just leaving the door open to the idea would be easier for me to deal with, even if we never did have another . Really confused.

Like we've got married and had the kids, im only 24, wtf do I do now?(2 things i never wanted in life but changed my mind) A the same time I would love to work again. urgh.

 

[bob2331]

Girls, if im honest, i never ever saw myself in this threat, after connor and harry, i said a big fat no, but clearly, someone had other idea's!!!!!!! x

 

[Lianne1986]

sandi thats exactly how i feel. i am only 24 too. happily married. so what do i do now?

i know i have 3 kids but i have only gave birth towce and i want to do it again! ok so i didnt get to 40 weeks with Jaiden but i did get full term!

does david want anymore?

and bob hope all goes well at the drs

 

[AP]

I dont think he does. Technically I can't see more ever being do-able until Lex & Tori are older but still.....
However ti e might change things, it did with Alex, we swore it was only her but a year later we decided otherwise

 

[Lianne1986]

i swore id have no more after tyler lol

how are the girls?

 

[Tasha]

Bob, omg congratulations hun. That is amazing news, especially given they said you would never conceive without ivf.

Sandi your avatar is beautiful

Lottie, I am sorry I have not been there for you. Drop me a message if you want

Sandi and Lianne you both come across as older than 24. I felt the same about Riley Rae being our last, as I am only 25 but obviously things have changed and if I ever get another earth baby it will deffo be our last because of my history.

 

[Tasha]

Aaah, I got to see my siggy I love it

 

[AP]

Ooooh i love ur siggie its beautiful xxx

 

[Lottie86]

Wow Bob that's amazing!! Congratulations!!!

Tasha: Don't apologise, you've got more than enough going on at the minute than to worry about me! I absolutely love your new signature


Miss Bumpity will definately be our last as if she does survive I'll have 2 disabled children who need full time care and if she doesn't I still don't think we'd have another as I honestly don't think I could go through all this again plus I'd have 'issues' whatever sex the baby was then too. I had enough issues before we found out what sex Bumpity was as whilst another boy would have been much easier for us from a practical point of view (sharing rooms etc) I was so relieved when I was told she's a girl as whilst I know you should never compare children rightly or wrongly I would have always compared another boy to Findlay more than I would a girl and I was very worried that I would treat a healthy boy as the little boy that Findlay should have been/should be rather than as a totally separate boy if that makes any sense.

 

[Tasha]

Thank you girls, I love it too. I get to be Honey and Riley Rae's Mummy on the forum which doesnt happen in RL, people only see me as a Mum to three, so it is nice to have it, iykwim?

Lottie, I think that makes sense about having issues. I know it isnt the same but when I was pregnant with Kaysie Blossom after Honey being born sleeping I sorta hoped she was a boy, simply because it was easier for my head to deal with, me to cope with, to seperate the two babies and because it made it different, like I wouldnt be able to compare him to Honey. Obviously when I found out Kaysie was a girl I was over the moon.

 

[AP]

I totally get what you mean there lottie, whether you think you would have compared on not perhaps you might have unknowingly without realising. Think thats just himan nature its not a bad thingy xxx

 

[you&me]

Congratulations Bob

Tasha...I love your new siggy!!!

Hey everyone :wave:

 

[AP]

Happy 1 week already Yasmin!

Danielle how r u keeping?

 

[freddiesmum]

bob, congratulation xxxx
hope all the rest of you girlies are ok xxx

 

[Lottie86]

Argh how on earth do you decide on names?! We've got a shortlist of 2 but I absolutely adore both names equally I don't think they work as middle names for each other plus I'd be a bit nervous of doing that 'just in case' as they are the only 2 girls names we could agree on but then part of me thinks if the worst did happen and we didn't have any more or had a boy then I'd never get to use one of the names

Findlay's + either name sounds really nice together so it's not even like that's any help to help me decide! God I had no idea choosing a name would be so difficult!!!

It was sooooo easy with Findlay as I only liked 2 boys names and Dave only liked 1 of them so he was always going to be Findlay.

 

[AP]

Why don't you go with the flow Lottie, like whatever feels right at the time?

 

[Lianne1986]

Tasha i love ur siggy!!!

i feel older than 24 lol tyler is 7 this year so i think thats what makes me fee old! i was 17 when i got pregnant for him

 

[you&me]

I am good thanks Sandi!!! How are you finding it with David back at work?

I think I have talked Allan into letting me have my girl's name choice...just can't decide on a boy name.

I had my kids quite old...by the time I got back from the USA and did my career and partying thing I had just turned 27 when I had Reagan, 32 when I had Amber and will be 33 when this one comes along...so definately no more for me after.

I am still trying to get my head around how I will manage with 3 kids on my own with Allan working such long hours

Scan at 12.30 wednesday...maybe it will all sink in more then

How is everyone?