Hi ladies! Happy New Year to you all
Sorry i've not been on but I ended up really really poorly. I know I told you all about my doctor who basically fobbed me off back to bed with paracetomal, well I gave it another week of bed rest and I just ended up getting worse and worse. In total I lost 10lbs in weight, I hadn't eaten for nearly two weeks and was only getting about an hours sleep a night from choking and being sick. It got to the stage earlier this week where I was lying on my bed coughing up blood in the middle of the night, I couldn't breath and honestly felt like I was going to just pass out. Hubby called NHS24 at 2.00am and they sent an emergency doctor straight out. He checked me over and told me I was one very poorly lady, my heart rate was double what it should be, my blood pressure was far too low, I had a temperature, my breathing was out of control and he said I had a rattling all around my chest. He said he had no choice but to send me to the hospital. So 3.00am I went off to hospital, it turns out I have two chest/lung infections, the first had been what I originally had in my top right which my doctor didn't bother to treat and because he didn't treat it I then went on to get an infection in my lower left respiratory system. I was dehydrated and they were seriously concerned about me not having eaten for so long. They said my doctor should never have sent me away like that and that it was very dangerous for baby and me. I had to have three drips to hydrate me and sort out my heartrate, they took three veils of blood out and then shot water in my veins, never had that before! I then started a strong course of antibiotics before getting but on a nebuliser every two hours. I tried throughout the day to eat but still couldn't, I just choked and coughed up more blood. By 4.00pm I begged the doctor to let me go home, I was so tired and all the other women on the ward weren't getting any rest with me coughing all the time. He wasn't happy with letting me go as he wanted to see how I handled food but I promised i would keep trying to eat when I got home and if I got worse I would go back in so he agreed to let me go as my heartrate and blood pressure were stabilised from the drips. So I came home and have been in bed ever since. I'm still not better but I am definitely a lot better than I was! I am managing to sleep again, not at nights as you can tell from this late post but i'm napping through the day which is a start. I tried sleeping at night but I end up choking through the night and get really panicky, I seem to sleep better during the day when I know hubby is awake and keeping an eye on me. I'm starting to eat again although it is very small amounts at the moment, half a tin of beans, half a bowl or cereal etc but it's a start. I am hoping I will feel a lot better in the next couple of days as the antibiotics end on Monday night.
Anyway enough about me, I just wanted to explain my absence. On a plus note the last 48 hours bubba has turned into a right wriggler and has really put my concerns at ease where this pregnancy is concerned
It's so nice to finally be able to feel movement. Wednesday afternoon is my big scan and I cannot wait to find out if the little wriggler is a boy or girl
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Nat I have been keeping a close eye on your Facebook but I see there is no sign of your little baby yet! That's nice you got a surprise scan though, hopefully you will have your little one here by the end of next week
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Emma How you doing hun? Well I hope
I can't believe how tight your bump looks! It really does look like your ready to pop! It's scary how close your due date is now but i'm so excited for you. I have loved being able to share your pregnancy journey with you and can't wait to see what little Daisy looks like
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Charlotte Welcome hun! Ooh February the 4th! Not long at all. Don't be scared hun, just think, it's only a day and then you'll have your gorgeous little baby in your arms x
Rachael Wow I can't believe you've only had 2 MW appointments! I thought with it being your first you would have as many as me. Mines seems never ending lol. Hope you're keeping well anyway x
Arlene Sorry to hear the sickness has come back, hopefully it will go for good this time! Not long at all till your scan now is it hun? I am sure you are only a couple of weeks away from mine. I can't wait to go shopping, I was meant to go look at prams etc in the Xmas break but i've not been able to do anything with this bug
Hopefully i'll get to do the fun stuff soon. Fab news about the house! How exciting! I am sure something as small as a littlewoods bill wouldn't affect your mortgage, if you add yourself on later it will end up costing you more as there will need to be a deed of variation done for the mortgage and then a new Disposition done and recorded to put your name on the house (you can tell I work in a solicitors can't you
) will be much easier if you can both get put on at the start, i'm sure it will all work out fine
How fab a new house, wedding plans and a new baby on the way! x
Karen Lovely bump pics hun and what beautiful nursery furniture you've picked! Hope you're keeping well x
Shona Beautiful scan pics hunnie, I am so pleased for you! I bet you loved being able to announce it at last
Hope the morning sickness is starting to pass, it did for me around the 12 week mark x
Adrienne Did you get a date booked for your surgery? I'm glad you are finally getting it sorted, you will notice a huge difference. Ooh your FS appointment is the same day as my scan! I really hope it goes well hun, it's fab hubby is totally on board with it all now too x
Natasha How's the NY resolutions going? I've not really made any other than try not to spend beyond my means! I know i'm going to find maternity pay a shock so trying to get everything I need paid off paid before maternity starts in April. The time just seems to be flying by! Sorry to hear your friends last treatment didn't work
It's great to see she is remaining positive though! I really hope it happens naturally for her, it would be a lovely surprise x
Naomi Ooh good luck for your scan on Monday hun! How exciting
I so know what you mean about people and their opinions, I am sick of people telling me I shouldn't find out the sex and how i'm going to regret it when I know fine well I wont regret it! You just do what you and your hubby want to do and ignore everyone else. Aww i love one born every minute, but it is a bit scary to watch now I know I have it coming
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Lea Hi hun! Thanks for enquiring about me, it's nice to be thought of
I'm getting there slowly, just been totally floored with this illness but I am hoping I can get on more often next week when my energy hopefully returns. I will be over on the ttc thread as soon as to catch up there too, hope you're keeping well
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Well I am going to go and have a lie down, see if I drift off. Sorry for the long post but I didn't want to miss anyone. I will try and get on a bit more often when I don't feel so knackered. Take care ladies x