SarahBear
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The day after Violet's birthday, she came home from preschool with a My Little Pony toy and a shape sorter with two shapes. We asked her about it and she claimed that another student gave it to her. This was a student who Violet invited to her birthday party, but did not show up to the party. This is also a student who Violet has gone back and forth on claiming to be friends with. We just figured that the kid was trying to be her friend by giving her these items. We didn't hear anything from the school, so we didn't worry about it but encouraged Violet to try to invite the kid over for a play date. Well, today, Violet came home with a wand, money, and stickers. When I started to mention that I'd have to talk to whoever the money came from, she spilled the beans and admitted that all of the items were stolen. In the meantime, she has put stickers on the pony and cut it's hair. We're having her use birthday money to buy a new pony and I also sat down to write apology letters with her. She can't write, but I had her verbalize what she's sorry for as well as how she'd feel if it happened to her. Then I had her do her best attempt at signing the letters. Tomorrow I'm having her take the letters and items back to school.
Has your child stolen items? What's your experience with stealing?
(For context, neither my husband nor I pick up Violet or drop her off at preschool. She carpools with another family. We'll be sending her in with the letters and items and ask the woman who drives her (she's also a teacher at the school) to help her get the things to the right people)
Has your child stolen items? What's your experience with stealing?
(For context, neither my husband nor I pick up Violet or drop her off at preschool. She carpools with another family. We'll be sending her in with the letters and items and ask the woman who drives her (she's also a teacher at the school) to help her get the things to the right people)