pushing it here. anyone else over 45?

[Jax41]

44andHoping lovely to meet you!!

Ladies, can I just say thank you and how much I love being on this thread

Duststar - CBdigi's are expensive but about the best as you get a smiley face when you're good to go but I have to admit after the first few months the £'s dictated to me so I use the cheap strips from Tesco (not sure where you are though??) or many ladies here buy bulk from amazon. I find if you dip them in a pot you have better control over them Good luck!

 

[heavenly]

It is great having a older thread - I know there is a 40's thread which I do post in but I feel when you are mid 40's....the mindset and choices change...so it's good to have you lovely ladies to chat to.

 

[Desperado167]

Ditto ,

 

[Jax41]

 

[Butterfly67]

Yeah - it is like 40 is soooo young!

 

[44andHoping]

Yes I think that's exactly how I feel.

I do love reading through many of the "younger" threads..but for some reason to me when it comes to having a baby I feel there is almost a big difference from between being 40 years young and 45 years young. I enjoyed reading through this thread particularly.

Appreciate the warm welcome!!

 

[heavenly]

Yeah - it is like 40 is soooo young!

Mid 40's is the new mid 30's.


I feel quite calm today. I think I have accepted about DE, so when we have our meeting with the Clinic in a couple of weeks' time, unless she thinks I am a walking miracle and that I should have a go with my eggs.......I will make sure there is nothing wrong, maybe get check my tubes etc.....and then we can wait a while, no hurry if you are having DE....save up a bit more....get off the clomid, go back to TTC naturally, not stress about it because we know we have a plan with the DE, and just go with the flow. I think it's the right way to go for us.

 

[Desperado167]

Yeah - it is like 40 is soooo young!

Mid 40's is the new mid 30's.


I feel quite calm today. I think I have accepted about DE, so when we have our meeting with the Clinic soon, unless she thinks I am a walking miracle and that I should have a go with my eggs.......I will make sure there is nothing wrong, check my tubes etc.....and then we can wait a while, no hurry if you are having DE....save up a bit more....get off the clomid, go back to TTC naturally, not stress about it because we know we have a plan with the DE, and just go with the flow. I think it's the right way to go for us.

Sounds perfect

 

[Butterfly67]

Sounds like a great plan heavenly

 

[marathongirl]

HI Everyone. I haven't been on for quite some time but I would agree there is a difference between barely 40 and those of us a little older. I will be 43 this year. WElcome 44 and hoping I think you are in the right place.
Heavenly- Your plan sounds great. It must be quite a relief to have a plan! We all know how the stress of it all can get us down and now you have something to look forward to that has a high success rate!!
AFM- cd9 just waiting to O here. Probably in 4 days or so. Fx'd for everyone!

 

[Desperado167]

Still no o for me ,dam soy but I felt great on it and no other s.e except delaying o ,

 

[Jax41]

Heavenly, you sound one chilled babe, I like your plan

Marathongirl, nice to meet you

Despie, does that mean you're not going to bother with the soy again next cycle??

 

[Desperado167]

Heavenly, you sound one chilled babe, I like your plan

Marathongirl, nice to meet you

Despie, does that mean you're not going to bother with the soy again next cycle??

I loved it jax and felt great on it so I will take it again only a bigger dose and not start dtd too early

 

[Jax41]

Heavenly, you sound one chilled babe, I like your plan

Marathongirl, nice to meet you

Despie, does that mean you're not going to bother with the soy again next cycle??

I loved it jax and felt great on it so I will take it again only a bigger dose and not start dtd too early

'not start dtd too early' If you do that, take a bigger dose, will it move your O day again? Or will you have same kind of cycle that you're having now? What I'm trying to say is will you have a better idea of O day!

 

[Desperado167]

Heavenly, you sound one chilled babe, I like your plan

Marathongirl, nice to meet you

Despie, does that mean you're not going to bother with the soy again next cycle??

I loved it jax and felt great on it so I will take it again only a bigger dose and not start dtd too early

'not start dtd too early' If you do that, take a bigger dose, will it move your O day again? Or will you have same kind of cycle that you're having now? What I'm trying to say is will you have a better idea of O day!

I really don't know jax until I try it ,most peeps that take soy brings their o day earlier but I took a low dose so maybe a bigger dose will bring it forward or back It just means I will be doing about a hundred opks and stressing more But hopefully a better egg

 

[Jax41]

Heavenly, you sound one chilled babe, I like your plan

Marathongirl, nice to meet you

Despie, does that mean you're not going to bother with the soy again next cycle??

I loved it jax and felt great on it so I will take it again only a bigger dose and not start dtd too early

'not start dtd too early' If you do that, take a bigger dose, will it move your O day again? Or will you have same kind of cycle that you're having now? What I'm trying to say is will you have a better idea of O day!

I really don't know jax until I try it ,most peeps that take soy brings their o day earlier but I took a low dose so maybe a bigger dose will bring it forward or back It just means I will be doing about a hundred opks and stressing more But hopefully a better egg

....and even more BDing???

 

[Desperado167]

Heavenly, you sound one chilled babe, I like your plan

Marathongirl, nice to meet you

Despie, does that mean you're not going to bother with the soy again next cycle??

I loved it jax and felt great on it so I will take it again only a bigger dose and not start dtd too early

'not start dtd too early' If you do that, take a bigger dose, will it move your O day again? Or will you have same kind of cycle that you're having now? What I'm trying to say is will you have a better idea of O day!

I really don't know jax until I try it ,most peeps that take soy brings their o day earlier but I took a low dose so maybe a bigger dose will bring it forward or back It just means I will be doing about a hundred opks and stressing more But hopefully a better egg

....and even more BDing???

Hopefully not

 

[44andHoping]

Still no o for me ,dam soy but I felt great on it and no other s.e except delaying o ,

I see a + on your OPK!!! and LOL at BDing even more ~ HA!!

 

[Desperado167]

Still no o for me ,dam soy but I felt great on it and no other s.e except delaying o ,

I see a + on your OPK!!! and LOL at BDing even more ~ HA!!

Yea just got it a few hours ago ,sooooo happy ,Thanks

 

[l8bloomer]

Heavenly, you sound one chilled babe, I like your plan

Marathongirl, nice to meet you

Despie, does that mean you're not going to bother with the soy again next cycle??

I loved it jax and felt great on it so I will take it again only a bigger dose and not start dtd too early

I'm curious about soy and wondering if I should give it a try. Does it give you better quality eggs? Or does it work only on your ovulation? Thanks.