wow Jessica, seems like you have been through the mill, i cannot believe they didnt scan you, thats really terrible, Hopefully you will get your scan to check everything is okay and for piece of mind, let me know how you get on hun.
Mrs R.....the only reason i got offered the trigger shot, was probably due to luck than anything.
When i had my last appointment, i said to my consultant are you going to track my follicles seeing as i have just had chlomid? (would you believe i had to ask if this was going to be done) with that she said oh, yes ok, and something must have triggered in her mind, as follicle tracking can go along side a trigger shot, with that she then said, let me give a prescription for the injection..... i sat there gobsmacked i could not believe i had to be asked to be monitored to track follicles and if it wasnt for me asking if she was going to do this, it would not have made her thought about the trigger shot...... so frustrating.
Do you have private health care or are you doing this on the NHS?
Becasuse i am covered under my private health care, i tend to demand things and throw in, 'well i am paying for it,' however you also pay your national insurance so in retrospect you are paying for it through the NHS, sorry to be so harsh but i get so angry when consultants dont offer what you are entitled to.
oh actually i have just thought........ you may not even live in England, therefore your health care may differ from ours, sorry.
Update on me -
i was told on Friday to have a scan on monday, but by the time i phoned my fertility department back they had gone, so i thought how i am supposed to have a scan on monday without them booking me in.... so i basically took the balls by the horn and phoned up the scanning department and booked my self in, lucky i did as i am still waiting for someone to call me back to arrange a scan grrrrr.
anyway had my scan today, my one follicle that was 13mm on thursday has grown to 22mm i was pleased with that, but dissheartned others have not grown, so hopefully this one follcile with be my miricle this month (praying)
i asked how my lining was doing, i was told it was still thin at 5.5.......
again i decided to take control of the situation and when i took my follcile tracking to the fertility department to be reviewed i asked if i could have some progesterone aid to help increase the thickness of my lining. (why i had to ask for this, and not be offered it from a qualified professional, i have no idea)
they should have known from my previous scan that the lining was thin and advised me to take some suppliments.
anyway the nurse has taken what i have said on board and will ask the Doctor, i will find out tonight what my next step is.... to take the shot, to wait, to take progesterone!!!!
Like you Mrs R up untill now i was in the same place as i was nearly a year ago and if it wasnt for me, stamping my feet, asking (demandin) for tracking, progesterone, trigger shots etc, who knows where i would be right now.
i guess to the consultants we are all just a number, and you yourself and no one else can shout out your number the loudest - which in my case, got me a tiny, tiny bit further down the line.........
i aslo guess if it wasnt for my hours upon hours of research i would not have been any the wiser to ask about trigger shots, tracking, progesterone suppliments etc.
And with all due respect i really shouldnt have to, that is what i thought the job/roel of the proffessional was for,,,,, clearly i have been proved wrong, but i am gald i found out sooner rather than later.
i am anxious about taking the trigger shot, just holding out now, having to wait to be told when to take it, i just dont want to get my hopes up but also hope i dont experience what jessica did as that must have been awful (hope your feeling better now)
sorry to go, just thought my info might help you.
Stay strong and i am here if anyone has any questions or just someone to chat to and to help along the way xx