So I just had my 9+2 U/S and got to see baby, HB and movements too. I was so happy and even more so because my SO was at the appt to share the experience.
Things got annoying when, the minute we left the Drs office, I saw that my husband had posted the U/S video to share with his family and mine. This and along with the hormones made me lose it! I was PISSED. I would like to be asked or be shown BEFORE its shared. and on top of everything, he CANNOT see my point of view.
After a yelling match and me accused of being selfish, im just trying to figure our how to explain to him that i want these to be private moments and to have a min to enjoy them. Yeah I get its our first baby but tbh, i was never shown any of his siblings kids u/s or had updates thru-out their pregnancies!
for a little context - He did the same thing last week after the week 8 appt. After the appt he decided it was ok to tell family and called his parents before we could discuss it! i mean yeah we had a loss in Nov 2015, are really happy now that we are expecting again but because of that experience im a little guarded still and not as enthusiastic as him. Im taking each day at a time while he is just going around telling who ever will listen!!!!
am I losing it for no reason?????
Things got annoying when, the minute we left the Drs office, I saw that my husband had posted the U/S video to share with his family and mine. This and along with the hormones made me lose it! I was PISSED. I would like to be asked or be shown BEFORE its shared. and on top of everything, he CANNOT see my point of view.
After a yelling match and me accused of being selfish, im just trying to figure our how to explain to him that i want these to be private moments and to have a min to enjoy them. Yeah I get its our first baby but tbh, i was never shown any of his siblings kids u/s or had updates thru-out their pregnancies!
for a little context - He did the same thing last week after the week 8 appt. After the appt he decided it was ok to tell family and called his parents before we could discuss it! i mean yeah we had a loss in Nov 2015, are really happy now that we are expecting again but because of that experience im a little guarded still and not as enthusiastic as him. Im taking each day at a time while he is just going around telling who ever will listen!!!!
am I losing it for no reason?????