polaris
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Thomas was a lot older moving to one nap, about 15/16 months, and the transition was quite difficult. But once he was actually firmly established on one nap it really made life so much easier. Much easier to plan activities that didn't clash with nap-time. Also he started sleeping later in the mornings after he dropped to one nap (previously usually awake at 5.30/6). Also when he first moved to one nap he was sleeping for three hours plus!
Shadowy Lady - I always woke Thomas from naps to keep him on schedule, I found that he did sooo much better with a consistent schedule but he was totally unable to stick to a consistent schedule without me keeping him on track by waking him if necessary. I also had to wake him from naps for ages so that he was able to fit two naps into the day, as he wasn't able to cope with just one. I still have to wake him from his nap now so that he will go to bed at a reasonable hour. Clara's naps are only just starting to lengthen and settle down into a regular schedule and I do wake her from naps when necessary too. I have recently started waking her from her morning nap by 11 so that she will be tired enough to take a long nap at about 1.30ish. However in the situation you described I agree with the others that there probably isn't much point in waking her and just try for a cat-nap later.
As for me, we have been doing controlled crying which has been miraculous in helping Clara to self-settle for naps, bedtimes, and night-wakings. However we are still having about a gazillion night wakings. Does anyone have any idea why? I am only feeding her once a night now and she doesn't seem hungry at the other wakings. However I counted and last night she woke up ten times! Five of these were just momentary arousals for 1 or 2 minutes, which I presume is just her way of transitioning sleep cycles. The others were mostly less than ten minutes but one was twenty minutes. She doesn't usually really properly cry when she wakes up, just sort of moany sleep crying. Could it be chronic over-tiredness causing her to wake up so often? She has dropped her third nap over the last few weeks and she is needing a much earlier bedtime. I managed to get her down at 6.35 today but I think she might need to go to bed even earlier as she was showing tired signs from about six. I find it hard to manage to get her down earlier though as dinner time is usually 5.30 but I think we might need to eat earlier for a bit. I keep wondering if there's something medically wrong that I'm missing. Ten wakings just seems totally excessive when there's no apparent reason for her to wake and she's able to settle herself back to sleep.
Shadowy Lady - I always woke Thomas from naps to keep him on schedule, I found that he did sooo much better with a consistent schedule but he was totally unable to stick to a consistent schedule without me keeping him on track by waking him if necessary. I also had to wake him from naps for ages so that he was able to fit two naps into the day, as he wasn't able to cope with just one. I still have to wake him from his nap now so that he will go to bed at a reasonable hour. Clara's naps are only just starting to lengthen and settle down into a regular schedule and I do wake her from naps when necessary too. I have recently started waking her from her morning nap by 11 so that she will be tired enough to take a long nap at about 1.30ish. However in the situation you described I agree with the others that there probably isn't much point in waking her and just try for a cat-nap later.
As for me, we have been doing controlled crying which has been miraculous in helping Clara to self-settle for naps, bedtimes, and night-wakings. However we are still having about a gazillion night wakings. Does anyone have any idea why? I am only feeding her once a night now and she doesn't seem hungry at the other wakings. However I counted and last night she woke up ten times! Five of these were just momentary arousals for 1 or 2 minutes, which I presume is just her way of transitioning sleep cycles. The others were mostly less than ten minutes but one was twenty minutes. She doesn't usually really properly cry when she wakes up, just sort of moany sleep crying. Could it be chronic over-tiredness causing her to wake up so often? She has dropped her third nap over the last few weeks and she is needing a much earlier bedtime. I managed to get her down at 6.35 today but I think she might need to go to bed even earlier as she was showing tired signs from about six. I find it hard to manage to get her down earlier though as dinner time is usually 5.30 but I think we might need to eat earlier for a bit. I keep wondering if there's something medically wrong that I'm missing. Ten wakings just seems totally excessive when there's no apparent reason for her to wake and she's able to settle herself back to sleep.