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Noelle610
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Noelle- she'll be pretty pissed about restricted feeds but in the end, we started doing that with Alex too. I'm a very hippy "attachment parent" in all ways but one thing that kind of irks me is that girls with reflux babies are often told to continually feed on demand, which can actually do more harm than good. I understand most people can't comprehend what a real reflux baby is like (it's not a wee bit of puking!!!) but I worry sometimes girls make it a lot worse for themselves following standard advice. Good luck!! We noticed a remarkable improvement in his reflux when he was able to sit, stand, and then once he started walking, it was gone.
Thanks for you understanding. My friends lean toward AP parenting as well and while I think it's awesome (skin to skin did wonders for my relationship with my daughter when I really didn't like her and was suffering from PND), feeding on demand doesn't always work for a reflux baby. We were forced to put her on a daytime schedule and I'm not sure why I didn't think if applying the same principles at night even though she was waking up in vomit. Charlotte is usually restless after the 3am feeding, but after she finally went back to sleep last night she actually slept soundly until 7am which is unheard of in this house. I'm wondering if not feeding led to less pain which led to a deeper sleep. I'm hopeful.
Come to think of it, I have noticed a vast improvement in Charlotte's reflux since she started sitting up in the past week... I didn't even connect the two!