Stephie, I hope your night is going well and leak-free!
And happy Father's Day to your DH if you guys are celebrating that!
Polaris, thank you for sharing your thoughts on sleep training
it was so interesting to read that. I can identify with what you're saying about its being simpler in a way for a baby who cries a lot in any case than for one who doesn't cry if you just do what she wants. And then it's even more complicated when you don't know how much the sleep training will actually reduce crying long term, isn't it?
But what you said about weighing everyone's needs and continuing to have her close to you for as long as that's a workable solution makes perfect sense to me. I hope it does continue to be workable and then things improve on their own so you never end up having to face the question. You really have had a long stretch of constant teething and illness...she'll be much older when it's over than she was when it started. Maybe maturity will make all the difference.
Speaking of which, thank you for sharing about Thomas and the travel cot! (yes, I think it's basically the same thing as a pack 'n' play). Maybe there is hope! I guess we'll have the daycare transition before vacation anyway so we'll see how LO handles that. Poor Clara, I hope the teeth are out soon and she's less uncomfortable.
It's hard to see a normally cheerful baby suddenly cranky!
Thanks also to both you and Stephie for your support for me and Munchkin, I really appreciate it!
Stephie, I honestly think you're giving me too much credit, though. The previous time I thought we were using the gentlest possible method that would actually work, but it really was a disaster compared to this last attempt. I do feel I learned more about my LO in the process, so maybe it was because of that...or maybe we were just luckier the second time!
Also, Munchkin can't be the poster child for gradual withdrawal since I'm not willing to finish it at the moment
it essentially ends in CIO and I'm still not up to that right now. I'm sure we will get there sometime before he goes to college, though, so you could call it
very gradual withdrawal!
Finally -- Polaris -- have a wonderful time in the UK!
Justme, welcome
I am sorry to add to the chorus, but it really DOES get better! That time can be really tough as you head toward WW19/the four month regression, but things will change so much in the next few months, your LO could come out of it sleeping just great! For now, there are lots of very knowledgeable mamas on this thread so hopefully we'll find a way to make things better so you can hang in there.
Noelle
I'm so sorry things are rough right now! I hope Charlie sleeps well for your DH too. I am sure things will get better again after the developmental stuff has calmed down. But I hope in the meantime it doesn't get too bad.
Vikki, did you end up with two naps? I don't think it's a big deal if you do every so often as you are going through the transition.
Rmsh, I'm so sorry things are so rough
3-4 months is so challenging. You think since you no longer have a newborn things are going to be better, but then they are worse, while other babies your LO's age don't seem to be struggling at all. I completely understand your feelings toward your OH. It's hard when you are alone with something like this. Is there any way he can share the load? Or is it on you because he's working, or because you're nursing?