Some more responses from earlier:
Stephie - thanks for the advice about the new beds and daycare
he does sleep reasonably well at daycare at the moment (knock on wood). He's moving classrooms at the same time as he's starting full time, so I'm nervous about that. I'm sure he will adjust in time but I'm afraid of the transition period. I am hoping that an earlier pick-up time will be better for his night sleep, though. Regarding the pack 'n' play...you're right that it's ages from now in baby time; I just feel like if he's going to have the same issue as he did with his crib, we're going to need to start getting him used to it soon! But of course I won't know far enough in advance.
So I'm not sure at what point to panic! I think it took about a month before he would sleep all night in his crib IIRC. And now he likes to roll around and stick his legs out between the slats as he's SS, and he can't do either of those in the PNP (since it's smaller and has mesh sides). I wish I could put his mattress in it, but it won't fit.
I was so fascinated to read that you got C to nurse side lying! Munchkin just doesn't get it at all. He just lies there and protests. It doesn't help that I've never been able to get us into position without two pillows and a rolled up blanket.
I've given up, since bed sharing is not something I'm really interested in anyway at the moment. Since you guys are doing it, though, it makes all the sense in the world to work on that skill! I hope it starts going more smoothly. I'm sure you and he will get the hang of it.
Is C showing any signs of separation anxiety during the day? The crying once you put him down could certainly be related to that...but sadly I think it could be almost anything else too.
PS, I don't know how diaper sizes work where you are, but if they start at size 1 (rather than "newborn"), your size 5 is our size 4
I hope your night went well
Rachel - don't worry about not getting the WT right. All we can do is try
as Polaris (I think) said, he'll get used to it, and you'll also learn more about the optimal time to put him down and how much wind-down he needs. I'm sure in a week or two this will be going much better. I find that better naps have gone along with better nights in a sort of general way, not one-to-one. And it certainly makes for more pleasant days. I really hope your nights get better though, that 1-3 waking is so challenging.
I know I've been hearing recently that some babies just find bath time stimulating and for those babies it isn't great to have toward the end of the bedtime routine. We had a maybe similar thing with pajamas and diaper change (we don't do a bath every night yet) -- used to do those right before nursing and lullabies, but LO started really resisting diaper changes and it just wasn't relaxing enough. So now we read 5 books in between (he's really into books ATM) and that seems to have helped.
Mrssunshine - so happy to read your update!
I hope you enjoy being back at work!
Amy - thanks for the reassurance about daycare and beds
we put him in his crib for naps for maybe a few weeks, put the bassinet right up against the crib for nighttimes so he could get used to seeing the bars, then finally moved him in there with his bassinet mattress (the same one he now hates in the pack 'n' play
) on top of the crib mattress. After a few nights of that I think he was ok in the crib. Our first attempt was horrible though. He'd been napping well there for two days when we first tried it at night, but he would refuse to settle if he woke up partially, or if I put him down completely asleep would wake up crying 10 minutes later. Something like 4-5 hours of this before we gave up. I hope you have a much easier time with Chloe! I do think the tummy rolling and waking upset is a particular phase many babies go through (mine did). It makes things really tough for a few nights but hopefully in that time they can learn on their own to either roll back or at least not get mad.
Sounds like you do know why she can't sleep as well in the crib -- she's not used to moving around so much. It is great that she sleeps so well in the rock 'n' play though. I'm sure once she gets used to the crib she will be a wonderful sleeper. Many babies sleep even better on their bellies once they get used to it.
Gaia - That DOES sound huge!!
I think it is definitely worth getting excited about. Those little steps toward SS can make a really dramatic difference IME. I hope this one does for you!
Polaris - sorry Clara is teething but glad that you were able to provide some relief. Hope this means the teeth are out soon. Which teeth are they? Also, how could you tell so clearly that it was teething??
Becca - Welcome, so sorry you are struggling
I'm sorry I don't know much about feeding schedules so don't know what to suggest about that. It does sound like quite a puzzle. What if you gave smaller bottles more frequently, since you said if you give one earlier he doesn't finish it? It is difficult when there are medical issues like eczema at play, since that limits what it is advisable to do in terms of any kind of sleep training. I'm sorry, I hope someone else on the thread has more experience and advice for you
Oh here's an idea though --
Bananaz, if you're around, am I remembering correctly that it's you who use a Zipadee-Zip with E? Do you think that might help with Becca's LO's swaddle transition and the scratching? I have to tell you, despite having no personal experience with that thing I've recommended it to two other people in the past week, one on BnB and one in person, so it better be good
Hope everyone has/had a good night