MrsPear
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Sorry Shadowy Lady, I have been so busy recently I've just not had chance to read through! I'm sorry you're still finding it so hard to sleep. That's really, really hard. I find it hard to sleep too, I'm always feeling too alert in case Joni wakes up even when she doesn't. I feel like even when she has a good night I'm still just as zonked the next day. I'm sorry you feel the same too, it's totally rubbish isn't it.
Joni has been sleeping better since being in her own room. Not perfectly, but only waking 2 or 3 times and it's totally manageable. The biggest difference is this night time routine that I have started. I have tried to do it before, but I'd say the reason it has worked this time is simply because she was ready for it and can understand a routine better, because all the other times she has simply cried and cried and not understood the 'cues' to sleep like the music I have and the low lights. So that's a relief.
Noelle, poor Charlotte. A double ear infection is enough to stop an adult in their tracks, so for a baby it must be so rough. No wonder her sleep has been less than brilliant again. Sometimes just getting up a few times can still leave you exhausted especially if each time is prolonged or you didn't get much rest for the previous few nights too.
Bananaz I know what you mean about 'not pushing the issue' e.g. with self settling. Everything is such tiny baby steps! But I don't think it would work for Joni any other way, and possibly Elsie too- I really feel like she needs to learn one small thing at a time. But sometimes I'm impatient to get more results!
Katrina- I am glad that Joni can't roll yet for the very reason that I don't want to have to deal with it at night! Sounds so hard. You say you shouldn't let her sleep on her tummy but I definitely believe that you do what you have to do to help them sleep and sometimes I personally think you have to break some of the rules to keep your sanity. I have let Joni sleep on me overnight before, which I know is really bad, but I just felt all I could do is make it as safe as possible because it's so incredibly hard having a baby that just won't sleep.
Tentoes- Like the others said that is probably fairly standard for your LO's age. BUT that doesn't mean it isn't just as difficult. From 0-8 weeks Joni was confused about night and day and everyone said it was normal- it DID NOT mean that I wasn't just as frustrated! I was going out of my tree with tiredness. I do hope that it passes for you soon then, try not to despair just yet, time passes very quickly and hopefully you will get some much needed sleep soon
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Joni has been sleeping better since being in her own room. Not perfectly, but only waking 2 or 3 times and it's totally manageable. The biggest difference is this night time routine that I have started. I have tried to do it before, but I'd say the reason it has worked this time is simply because she was ready for it and can understand a routine better, because all the other times she has simply cried and cried and not understood the 'cues' to sleep like the music I have and the low lights. So that's a relief.
Noelle, poor Charlotte. A double ear infection is enough to stop an adult in their tracks, so for a baby it must be so rough. No wonder her sleep has been less than brilliant again. Sometimes just getting up a few times can still leave you exhausted especially if each time is prolonged or you didn't get much rest for the previous few nights too.
Bananaz I know what you mean about 'not pushing the issue' e.g. with self settling. Everything is such tiny baby steps! But I don't think it would work for Joni any other way, and possibly Elsie too- I really feel like she needs to learn one small thing at a time. But sometimes I'm impatient to get more results!
Katrina- I am glad that Joni can't roll yet for the very reason that I don't want to have to deal with it at night! Sounds so hard. You say you shouldn't let her sleep on her tummy but I definitely believe that you do what you have to do to help them sleep and sometimes I personally think you have to break some of the rules to keep your sanity. I have let Joni sleep on me overnight before, which I know is really bad, but I just felt all I could do is make it as safe as possible because it's so incredibly hard having a baby that just won't sleep.
Tentoes- Like the others said that is probably fairly standard for your LO's age. BUT that doesn't mean it isn't just as difficult. From 0-8 weeks Joni was confused about night and day and everyone said it was normal- it DID NOT mean that I wasn't just as frustrated! I was going out of my tree with tiredness. I do hope that it passes for you soon then, try not to despair just yet, time passes very quickly and hopefully you will get some much needed sleep soon
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