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Thats great Noelle. I didn't know you had PND but am glad it's being sorted now. Sleep deprivation must have made that 10 times worse.
Thats great Noelle. I didn't know you had PND but am glad it's being sorted now. Sleep deprivation must have made that 10 times worse.
Thats great Noelle. I didn't know you had PND but am glad it's being sorted now. Sleep deprivation must have made that 10 times worse.
I didn't know I had it either! For awhile I just thought I wasn't suited to be a mom. I'm so happy to sought treatment. I don't know why it took me so long. I wanted to do things naturally, but getting on some medication was the best thing I ever did. I'm actually enjoying being a mom now, even when I'm tired.
Sleep deprivation does play a big part in how I feel. Toward the worst of my PND, I was having really bad insomnia as well and I wasn't sleeping even when Charlotte slept. Now if I can rest when she does, I find I don't feel nearly as bad as I did before.
Thats great Noelle. I didn't know you had PND but am glad it's being sorted now. Sleep deprivation must have made that 10 times worse.
I didn't know I had it either! For awhile I just thought I wasn't suited to be a mom. I'm so happy to sought treatment. I don't know why it took me so long. I wanted to do things naturally, but getting on some medication was the best thing I ever did. I'm actually enjoying being a mom now, even when I'm tired.
Sleep deprivation does play a big part in how I feel. Toward the worst of my PND, I was having really bad insomnia as well and I wasn't sleeping even when Charlotte slept. Now if I can rest when she does, I find I don't feel nearly as bad as I did before.
Awww, glad it is all sorted. I felt like that too, like I was just not a good mom. Maybe I had it too and just didn't know, like you? I don't feel like that anymore though. Hmm... I did the same thing. I had terrible insomnia I couldn't sleep and was lucky if I got 2 or 3 hours!
I rarely go out at night because it is not worth the hassle at the moment, but the few times I attempted too I did feel crazy that I was wasting potential sleep time! lol When sleep deprived, every bit counts!!!! However, it is nice being an adult every now and then with a social life! haha I am forgetting what the feels like. Hope you have a good time!In other news, I am leaving baby with her grandma and going out for a few hours tonight. Does anyone else feel totally crazy when they "spend" potential sleep time doing frivolous things like, oh, having a social life and being an adult? It makes me feel so irresponsible, lol.
i hate to say it but my lo's sleep is really getting me down. i try to be grateful and positive that she's healthy and etc, but it's hard at times when i'm so tired and feeling awful. it also gives me horrid anxiety because i don't feel like it will ever get better. i have some health anxiety/phobias and i'm always worrying, what if i'm really sick and she won't settle, what if, what if.
she takes cat naps in the day like 30 minutes. then will sleep if i hold her in the evenings. last night i had a headache and sore throat. i fed her and held her till she was asleep, put her in the pack n play, went to lay down, closed my eyes and she was awake crying as soon as i closed them. it feels like torture.
just having a whine
LOL.....yeah, if I threaten DH with that I would probably be in for an argument! I need the help he gives me, so I try to just ignore it and move on! He will get up with her and take turns with me. He can't BF her during the night, but in the mornings he is 'on duty' he will bring her to me and I nurse her in bed and then he takes her. I do not get to sleep in for long because I either have to get up for work or if it is the weekend she wants to BF at some poing.lysh - my DH doesn't complain about being tired nearly as much since I started threatening to kick him in the junk whenever he said it
Awwww....hope your LO feels better soon. I went through a phase like that with DH (I sometimes still get in those moods like this past weekend). Granted I make the choice to BF, but it is still hard to be the one getting up to feed LO. Yes, he stirs and wakes up a bit when she cries and wakes up when I get back to bed, but it is not the same. I think it is normal for couples to go through stuff like this. Does he help in other ways or take LO for a bit so you can sleep in ever?I haven't been on for a couple of days but things here just aren't improving Last night I propped myself up with pillows for LO to sleep upright on me. His ears must be really bad, I feel awful for him! Going to ring the doctors at 8am for an appointment for him.
In some ways I feel like I'm getting used to getting no sleep but I'm really starting to feel down about it as well. It's starting to affect mine & OHs relationship a bit, I'm resenting the fact that he gets a full nights sleep every night while I don't sleep at all.
Oh no! After having such a good streak, this much have felt like hell!! So sorry.....you must have had a long day at work.Last night was awful!!!! Charlotte was awake from 2:30am to 4:30am and started her day at 5:30am. No idea why! She was very upset. We tried everything from advil to feeding to rocking. Nothing worked. She woke up with no fever though and was quite happy. WTH???? I'm tired.
No, we do not go in right away. We give her anywhere from 10-15 minutes to settle down. Sometimes she is back and forth...it seems like she is about to settle so we wait longer and then she is crying again. Last night she cried for 10 minutes, went back to sleep, and then woke up 30 minutes later crying again. At that point I just went in because I was so freaking tired I could not take going through that again to only have her sleep another 30 minutes.Lysh - glad to hear your LO is sleeping better. Do you usually go to her right away when she wakes up? I find with mine sometimes when I let her fuss for a few minutes she just goes right back to sleep...
LOL....you must have loved hearing that complaint! It is crazy to witness babies who sleep easily/well first hand. I was visiting a friend and her baby (only 2 months older than my LO). All of a sudden she is like, "he is getting sleepy, I will be right back'. She picked him up, put him in his crib and came back into the living room. Sure enough, he freaking fell asleep!!! No fussing, just went right to sleep for a nice nap. Can't say I have any idea what that feels like! Naps have always been a struggle!
Well, last night was not great. LO was back to wanting to wake up every 2 hours. I basically got a total of 5 hours of broken sleep. Then she was wide awake at 4- DH thankfully took her but I still had to BF her until 4:40 and then I had to wake up at 5:30 for work. I am praying for better sleep tonight!!!!! Personally, I need a night to refresh a bit because I am starting to feel beat up!
Sunnie - sounds more like a wonder week than the sleep regression. When my LO went through sleep regression, she went from sleeping 4-6 hours at a time to sleeping 45-60 MINUTES at a time For 3 months.
I think it's really common for babies to see some sleep issues when they learn something new especially the physical stuff like crawling, rolling etc, but it doesn't last forever luckily
i've got the out of control mess feeling as well as wanting to run away. i keep putting off getting help, who knows why....