Recurrent Miscarriage Thread

[stardust22]

9 babies.sorry I re read my post and it didn't quite make sense! I wasn't sure if u were waiting for app regarding miscarriages but now u r pregnant u wanted to be seen earlier? If this is the case I think its terrible how they can't see u NOW. I can self refer to Epu here and the see u within a day or 2. I didn't realise other areas were different.

This whole thing is frustrating. I just hope u can be seen and you get all the help and support you needx

 

[stardust22]

Mandy. Great news and everything crossed for your bfp.

Davies. Glad u r recovering well. I deleted myself permanently off fb as after 4 mcs and a long wait I struggled seeing it all. Felt like it was rubbed in my face. 3 weeks without fb and its the best thing I ever did. X

 

[Goodgirl35]

thanks. I didnt really think anyone missed me to be honest.

I am very tired of it. I just found out I am pregnant again, and they wont give me an appt till 6 weeks from now.

Hello 9babiesgone! Congrats!!!!

Get yourself plenty of rest in the meanwhile. Is there no other Obg that you can see???

 

[9babiesgone]

Yeah I will have to see one soon!! but It is a pain in the ass to get a new pcm(primary care doctor) which I have to change, to see anyone off base, bc those on base are full for 6 weeks!!

 

[Goodgirl35]

Yeah I will have to see one soon!! but It is a pain in the ass to get a new pcm(primary care doctor) which I have to change, to see anyone off base, bc those on base are full for 6 weeks!!

I will keep u in my prayers. I though high risk pregnancies were to be seen right away. I would demand it even if I was the last to be seen that day. Try not to stress. Have faith with this pregnancy.

 

[9babiesgone]

thanks!! I am sure the spirits wont let me down.

 

[petitpas]

9babies, congratulations on your pregnancy. I hope with all my heart that you can be seen by someone in the next week so you get all the care you can for this little one
Have you thought about taking aspirin and extra folic acid in the meantime in addition to what you are already taking?

 

[9babiesgone]

Yeah I think I will take more folic acid.

 

[ovenbun]

Hi ladies it's 2 weeks today since my d and c an I think I have finally stopped spotting! Sorry for tmi but had brownish stuff for nearly a week did anyone else have that?
It's been nice not to think bout anything baby related for week! But found out today 2 people are pg one I no well an she's past 20 weeks another just old school friend but it still upset me seeing her fb status! I think I should come off bloody fb to b honest sooo many girls I no pg! Depressing seeing there bump pics scans announcements! It's diff on here I love it when someone had a nice story! I still haven't had my blood test forms from epau! I feel in limbo I'm used to concentrating so much on getting pg peeing on bloody sticks for ov then when I was of I tested at least once a day! Researching my vitamins etc but now researching recurrent mc is like a needle in haystack till u had tests I just can't stand waiting I'm so inpatient! I could cry! X

me too i bloody hate FB right now my 2 best friends both had babies last mth it broke my heart we were all pregant at the same but I lost my pregancies I had to watch staus update of them planning to meet up and things i felt so isolated, there is always someone making there new announcements

 

[ovenbun]

Yeah I think I will take more folic acid.

congratulations this will hopefully be your time I realise thats had to comprehend after what you've been through and with the lack of support from health professionals- but you do need to try and keep your stress levels down try and take your mind off it go and do somethingxx

 

[ovenbun]

Im off to london tomorrow for my appt Tuesday (first one) am any tips anyone ?

 

[lynnb]

thanks lyn so so much!! how are you?

I'm fine but a little confused at the moment, I'm not too sure what's going on with my body. I had a transvagainal pevlic scan on Tuesday pm & have been spotting since Wed pm, not enough to fill even a panty liner , just a few drops here & there and occasionally when I wipe (sorry tmi) but enough for me to be a little concerned about as I'm not really expecting AF until wed/thurs or even later depending on what my cycle decides to do this month.

Im off to london tomorrow for my appt Tuesday (first one) am any tips anyone ?

No tip sorry, just wanted to wish you luck.

 

[petitpas]

Good luck, ovenbun!
My first appointment was mainly a fact finding mission so my advice would be to take all medical information you have - notes, scans, reports, blood results - with you, plus write down the main points about your pregnancies, what you felt, how long they lasted, what medication you were on. Most of this is probably covered by their questionnaire but it's good to have the information in front of you, too, after you've handed over the form.
Oh yeah, have breakfast before, too, because they will leech you
Let us know how it went! Xxx

 

[LeeC]

We didn't even have sex this cycle and I was still testing every day

Petitpas - It's and addiction or an affliction, I'm not sure which lol.... xxx

 

[LeeC]

Oh I just noticed your pregnant 9babies. Congratulations, praying this is your sticky will be thinking of you xxx.

 

[hopefulmama2b]

good luck tomorrow ovenbun!!

 

[jackie132]

Hi Ladies,

I don't know how you stay so positive. I had my lap last month, and since I have had a strange cycle of bleeding during ovulation time for three days, then a period 14 days later. I'm hopeful it will settle down this month and I might manage to conceive at some point soon.

I am really down atm, usually work helps to take my mind off of it, but since I saw my sister in laws cot on sat for their baby due in 4 weeks, i'm so depressed. We don't really speak to her but it was sitting at the in laws. I came away devestated. I feel awful almost begrudging someone happiness, but can't seem to be happy for them. My gp is terrible and I am seriously thinking I need some type of depression meds. I can't explain the awful thoughts that have been going through my head.

Jackie

 

[LeeC]

Hi Jackie.
Its really hard to stay positive sometimes and believe me we all have out struggles. I have been though a very dark time and even members of my family have commented on how they think I need help!!!
The last 2 weeks were very difficult and I was offered anti depressants by my gp but have declined as I really want to ttc this weekend, but really hon you have got to do what feels tight for you and listen to your body.
I had a break from here and all things baby related but it still didn't really help as it is an all consuming struggle that we are going through.
I guess for me it's the thought that I will get to hold my baby one day.
I'm feeling more positive now, but we all have good days and bad and everyone on here knows how you are feeling, and I'm sure we all feel resentful at some point, it's part of the process.
It takes time but it will get easier. I'm sending you hugs now and we are all here for you whenever you need us.
xxx

 

[LeeC]

Hi Jackie.
Its really hard to stay positive sometimes and believe me we all have out struggles. I have been though a very dark time and even members of my family have commented on how they think I need help!!!
The last 2 weeks were very difficult and I was offered anti depressants by my gp but have declined as I really want to ttc this weekend, but really hon you have got to do what feels tight for you and listen to your body.
I had a break from here and all things baby related but it still didn't really help as it is an all consuming struggle that we are going through.
I guess for me it's the thought that I will get to hold my baby one day.
I'm feeling more positive now, but we all have good days and bad and everyone on here knows how you are feeling, and I'm sure we all feel resentful at some point, it's part of the process.
It takes time but it will get easier. I'm sending you hugs now and we are all here for you whenever you need us.
xxx

 

[LeeC]

And sorry Jackie, meant to say you're well within your rights to see a different gp, if you're not happy, hopefully you will find someone who is sympathetic to your cause. Some so called specialists and gps never fail to disappoint.
Good luck honey xxx