Recurrent Miscarriage Thread

[reedsgirl1138]

Thanks Amos. I have been trying to watch for you on the other thread.

 

[Amos2009]

I have actually been kinda MIA today...I had time to scan but not really post much. Been working on getting a job!!

 

[Hollybush75]

Widger thanks for your update - it's stories like yours which give me hope that one day I too will be posting trying to give ladies in our shoes more hope that it will happen

 

[Amos2009]

I am bleeding......it's red. I know what it means. Been there before. WHY WHY WHY WHY

 

[kat731]

Reeds- will be hoping everything is ok with ur miracle!!!

Widger- excellent update and very encouraging!

Amos- so sorry ....hopefully it isn't another loss. Please keep us updated...

 

[Rabbittchild]

Thanks so much Widger for your update - It's always good to hear positive stories I just hope that I (and the other ladies here) will be as lucky

Reedsgirl - will be thinking of you x

Amos - I hope it isn't the worst for you x

 

[Hollybush75]

having a bit of a rough time tonight - it was 2 years ago today I found out my second twin had died and it's 2 years tomorrow that I lost them both from my body

 

[reedsgirl1138]

Amos Oh gosh huni. I am sorry. I am praying.

Holly I am sorry for your loss.

 

[Rabbittchild]

Holly I'm so sorry, am thinking of you these dates are always so difficult

 

[Amos2009]

Holly- dates and reminders are always tough no matter how many days/years go by.

 

[heart tree]

Hi lovelies. I’m just back from a weekend away and am catching up. Reedsgirl, I am hoping with all my might it isn’t a molar pregnancy. They thought I had a molar for both of my last 2 pregnancies, but they weren’t. Please, please keep us updated.

Amos… What is happening honey? Are you still bleeding? Don’t forget what Widger said. She bled the whole way through and now has her baby boy. I hope everything is ok.

Poisonwood, an FS is a fertility specialist or a Reproductive Endocrinologist. My gyno referred me to him after my 3rd loss just to make sure she wasn’t missing anything.

Widger, thanks for your update. It definitely gives me hope! Your baby is BEAUTIFUL!

Holly, I’m so sorry you are going through this. These dates tend to creep up on us and it feels like a stab to the heart. No one should feel like this.

AFM, I have cramps and AF is in full swing. I want to be happy since she came exactly 5 weeks after my last mc. But seeing blood just reminds me that I’m not pregnant. I scheduled my HSG for August 30. I cant wait to be done with it. I spent my weekend with 2 babies. They were beautiful and brought me joy. At the same time, it was hard to watch them cuddle up with their mammas. When will I have that experience? I cried a few times in my room because at times, it got to be too much. My due date from my second pregnancy is this week. I also should have been 12 weeks pregnant with my third pregnancy over the weekend. Having AF was a huge reminder of all of my losses. It’s hard sometimes to stay positive. Luckily I was in a beautiful place and I drank a lot of good wine!

I’m anxious to hear everyone’s updates and sending lots of sticky vibes.

xoxo

 

[kat731]

Heart- I know how u feel being around those babies. I was around 3 at the same time this weekend. While I was in heaven playing and snuggling with them, it was hard also. Especially if I heard any gripes about their sleeping schedule or what not. I always want to say "do u know what I would give up to not sleep and take care of a baby!!", but I never do. Sometimes they catch them selves and apologize.
They asked me if I had a doctors appt lined up, and if me and hubby discussed baby #3 at all. When I told them yes, I had AF and was excited, and I had u wonderful girls here to help me, they seemed shocked that I was, idk, so obsessed?! Lol, or maybe, concentrated is better . They just can't relate. They've never had a loss. When I talked about CM they looked at me like I was from another planet! Lol .
Anyway, hope you all had a great weekend. 10 days til my appt!!!

 

[heart tree]

Kat, I don't even bother talking about ttc and cm and everything else with my girlfriends because they really don't get it. I like how you call it "concentrated" rather than "obsessed." How can we avoid concentrating on something so important?

The women I was with this weekend also had never had a loss. They also complained about wanting to wean their babies and sleep schedules. I literally would leave the room. I can't listen to that kind of talk. They have no idea how lucky they are. They are great moms, don't get me wrong, but they are looking through a different lens than I'm looking through in life.

I'm glad to be home. I'm ready for AF to be over now!!! LOL! Good luck with your appointment. I hope you update us. xoxo

 

[reedsgirl1138]

Ladies I just wanted to update. I am not having a molar pregnancy. I am having twins. We are not sure baby b will make it he is only measuring 6+3 and is in a very small sac compared to baby A who is measuring 7+3 and has a hb of 188. Baby b has no hb yet but I am praying its just early, as by my lmp I should be 6+4.

 

[kat731]

Omg.omg.omg.omg!!!! Yeay!!! That is so awesome! Lol, im so excited for you . How awesome would that be, 2 miracles?! Were u on clomid or anything? Im literally smiling! Yeay!

 

[reedsgirl1138]

Hey Kat no clomid this cycle. I was only on the B6, baby aspirin and prenatal. MY temps were up and down for like 4 days and I had neg and the pos then neg and then pos opks...I was so confused. The babies are in separate sacs so I did O twice.

 

[heart tree]

WOW! That is great news! How cool that you ovulated twice. Thanks for the update. When is the next scan?

 

[reedsgirl1138]

in a 2 weeks

 

[heart tree]

I'm so glad they are keeping such close tabs on you. I hope this two weeks flies by for you. xoxo

 

[kanga]

hi ladies, thought I would pop in and say hi. Had my 2nd mc this month so guess I am a recurrent now. Sending lots of to you all x