RoxyRoo
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Sorry roxyroo My boy is 16 months and had bad reflux from 0-14 months, only an occasional episode now.
Some recommendations:
Wear her/feed her upright in a proper sling/wrap, it was a lifesaver. Yes, you'll be vomited on, but it will greatly reduce her pain.
You might want to try a syringe with the gaviscon or even a little cup instead.
Most women find gaviscon useless unfortunately. If you don't see improvement, try and see about something stronger.
Stick with BF as much as possible - formulas are a nightmare and often make things worse (we ended up with soy formula ourselves, it hurt him but it was the lesser of all evils)
Prop up her basket by 45 degrees
Diet- "elimination diet", dairy and onions tend to be the biggest culprits. Dairy exists in so many products you wouldn't even realize- search a vegan website or non-dairy website for specific product lists.
Also 21 days is a prime growth spurt so she will require cluster feeding/be very clingy, this is normal even for non-reflux babies, just try to SURVIVE, good luck
Welcome, adn so sorry your havin to deal with this. My dd, Sophie, suffered terrible acid reflux and is till exclusively bf (one yr old yesterday). Spot on info from Aliss.
For Gaviscon:
Give gaviscon BEFORE feeds (not after).
To mix it pour the sachet into an eggcup: no corners where the meds get stuck
Fill a 5ml syringe with cooled boiled water: if its still hot jst run the filled syringe under the cold tap to cool it really quick. The syringes that come with 'nurofen' are great cos you can sterilise them and they're not 'pointy' at the end
Add 3mls of the water to the gaviscon and mix until smooth, then add the rest of the water - if it still goes lumpy jst leave it a couple of minutes and the lumps will disolve
Draw all the 5mls back into the syringe: you DONT need to mix it with 15mls as directed - I checked this with a few different pharmacists who all said 5mls was plenty!
Put syringe into babies mouth & release the gaviscon slowly - make sure you aim the meds at the inside of baby's cheek, rather than pointing it
towards the throat
Offer bf immediately
Also, I used to mix a couple of syringes of gaviscon and take them upstairs to use for night feeds (i put them in a long toothbrush holder to keep them clean) - i know they recoment you make it up immediately b4 giving to baby, but worked ok for us!!
DEFO keep up the bf if you can - it is MUCH easier to digest than ff which can cause more pain. Have a look at this article here: https://www.reflux.org/reflux/webdoc01.nsf/(vwWebPage)/Breastfeed.htm?OpenDocument
CMPI/ MSPI (cows milk protien intolerance / milk soya protien intolerence) is the most common allergy in babies and can cause severe reflux. Excluding dairy from your diet can make a huge difference if this is the case. Have a look here https://www.refluxrebels.com/Acid_reflux/Acid_reflux_medication.html to help you decide if this may be an issue for your LO (quiz menu at top). This is a list of ingredients to avoid if avoiding dairy: https://www.kellymom.com/store/freehandouts/hidden-dairy01.pdf
This book saved my sanity (best £6 I ever spent - just read the reviews by other parents): https://www.amazon.co.uk/Colic-Solv...0681/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1319413881&sr=8-1
Feed your lo while they're half asleep
Put your baby to sleep on their tummy. I started this at 5 wks cos my LO could not lie on her back at all. At first i only did it during the day so that i could keep an eye on her, but after a week i did it at night too cos it was the only way any of us could get some sleep. I was terrified of SIDS at first cos tummy sleeping is a major factor in cot death, but when i researched it i found that it was almost always in combination with other factors. Have a look at the SIDS website b4 using tummy sleeping s o that u can take every possible precaution.
Trust your instincts and do what works for you and your baby - if the only place she can sleep is a bouncy chair then do it.
There are meds out there that can really help. Usually they start with gaviscon, then move onto ranitidine (zantac), then omeprazole. It can be a battle getting the docs to take you seriously, and a constant battle getting them to increase dosages or change the meds, but stay polite, firm and insitant. If your daughter is really distressed goto the nearest childrens hospital, or at least one with a paediatric unit and keep pushing un til someone helps her.
sorry so long, but i felt I needed a lot more detail in the beginning than i could find!!
Thank you both so much for your detailed replies, you have no idea how much I appreciate it I've had my hands full for the last few days so haven't had chance to get online.
We've been giving her the Gaviscon, it's going ok, we're giving it in a syringe mixed with 5ml of my breast milk, is this ok? The problem is she keeps spitting it out so is only getting half of it if we're lucky. It seems to help sometimes, but not others. She's still unsettled but not as much as she was.
Our main problem now is that she is incredibly clingy now, and constantly wants my boob. For the first two weeks she'd feed every 2-3 hours and sleep happily in her moses basket inbetween feeds. Now, she's feeding as often as every hour and comfort sucking inbetween. Putting her down is impossible, she cries as soon as we put her down - I'm so tired I didn't get any sleep again lastnight as she'd fall asleep on me and as soon as I tried to put her down she's wake up and want to suckle again, it's so exhausting. Does anyone have any ideas on how to help her to sleep in her basket again? I've propped her basket up but it doesn't seem to have helped.
We've tried giving her a dummy to sooth her but she keeps spitting it out. We've tried loads of different ones but she doesn't want them.
I'm worried that she's going to get too used to sleeping on me and that we'll never get her to sleep in her basket again.
Sorry for the long post, and thanks again for the advice