This thread is actually making me so so upset and angry,
some of you have probably read my posts about my "OH" about how much stress and pure upset he has caused me throughout the pregnancy conviniently for him we decided to have a break just before i found out i was pregnant - due to him behaving so awfully towards me in the last 6 months of our relationship.
But instead of step up to the mark and love me in the way i always loved him he has treated me absolutly dispicably . . . he has seen me about 5 times throughout the pregnancy mainly for scans and once just me and him every fucking day he comes up with some pathetic excuse . . . he hasnt even told his parents despite him being 22years old just so they dont "cause him hassle" his excuse it he wants to wait until hes working full time and has his new car why? so they can see hes "stepping up to the mark" I AM 22 WEEKS PREGNANT FOR GODS SAKE !!!
My mom is absolutly sick to death of the pain hes putting me through and has said if he does not come and see me tommorow and take some responsibility she is ringing his parents once and for all - people may wonder why ive waited so long and its because everytime i say im going to tell them he calls me everyname under the sun and says he will block me out of his life and hate me and we will never have a chance of "us" again . . . its emotional blackmail because he knows it will hurt me.
He says im blackmailing him by threatening to tell his parents because "he cant come over and see me" which is his excuse for getting so angry . . .
Can anyone give me any advice??
I am so so upset with all this i cannot deal with it any longer i dont know what to do and im sitting here crying my eyes out my mom has to go and have a lump looked at on monday which has returned after having breast cancer 4 years ago which i am absolutly terrified and heartbroken about.
I am scared his parents will make it even worse he is a mommys boy and im scared she will just defend him and give him even more of an excuse to behave the way he is . . . despite him saying she wouldnt do this and shed probably throw him out.
what do i do?