Sad news, i have also lost a little one before and it was so difficult, I felt like the little chose that the time wasn't right. Nature has amazing ways of taking care of us, I was so suprised to learn how many little ones return to the universe, it really helped me to talk to other women in my life... to hear they have lost a baby and to see them with their beautiful healthy children or big babby bellies!!!! I send a huge hug to both you and your partner! OOOOOOO...those are hugz