Hello dear ladies.
I am very happy i have found this group, for I have the amazing ability to worry myself so much that i COULD make a problem really happen.
So when i was 14 weeks , i woke up to pee, and peed blood . I fainted and called 911. In the ER they said that my placenta was low, but otherwise, the baby was great. One week later i go to my OBGYN and he does not see a low placenta, but a 6.5X3.5X4 cm SCH. He tells me right off the bath , that even though the baby is great , i have a 20% chance of miscarrying. I had lightly bled for 5 days, and by the time of this appointment, it was already dark brown with mucus (sorryyyy). He said he did not expect me to ever stop bleeding, and that the hematoma was covering the cervix, and it was next to the placenta.
However, i stopped bleeding the next day, and that was that . No sex, moderate activities, no lifting anything "heavy". No long long walks. So i listened.
Yesterday, 1 month later, at my 19Week anatomy scan , i had hopes that my SCH has gone bye bye. However, it was stilllll there, this time gray in color since it is old blood, and up to 7.05cm....the only measurement taken. So i don't know if the volume actually changed. But this doctor did tell me it increased a little in one direction, and it is stable so not growing. He did not seem concerned at all.
However, I am concerned. Now that its not resolved, what does this mean about my prognosis? Is it the most dangerous after week 20? How do we know if my placenta is impacted? Will i bleed if it starts ripping away. I am so scared, i was happy yesterday, and then i googled "subchorionic hemorrhage after 20 weeks", and I swear, most women seem to have given birth early around 24- 30 weeks if this is the case. Do i have no chance now to carry to term? This does not look like its going to be re-absorbed at all, since it has not changed in a month, and the doctor said "its seems to be on the inside" whatever that means.....
I feel like I honestly know it wont end well, and that i should detach myself right now. I already told my 5 year old that her brother will die, so she should not get exited. I am very hopeless, and reading all of these stories, made me confirm my fears. I just wish i had asked my doctor more questions when i had the chance.
Thank you all for the support, looking forward to talking with you all during my 1 month wait to see if baby is well and if that stupid thing in there is still chilling in there.