Second trimester miscarriage

[Emmmalou]

This is the first time I've used these forums, but just hoping to hear from people in similar situation. Up until a couple of weeks ago my pregnancy was exactly as it should be, then my waters broke at 22 weeks and on Tuesday, 5 days later, my beautiful baby girl Willow was stillborn. We held her all day and I cherish that time. But my heart is broken. Nothing can replace her. But I'm already thinking of the future and am terrified to try again incase the same thing happens. I could never go through this again.

 

[LaceFace88]

This is the first time I've used these forums, but just hoping to hear from people in similar situation. Up until a couple of weeks ago my pregnancy was exactly as it should be, then my waters broke at 22 weeks and on Tuesday, 5 days later, my beautiful baby girl Willow was stillborn. We held her all day and I cherish that time. But my heart is broken. Nothing can replace her. But I'm already thinking of the future and am terrified to try again incase the same thing happens. I could never go through this again.

I know exactly how you feel. I have four perfect pregnancies up until my last one with my angel baby. Even up until I went into preterm labor nothing happened that was different with my other four children. I had him at 20w it was the worst thing that has ever happened to me and is still very hard to deal with now just a lol over 6 weeks but it has gotten a little better. I see a counselor once a week because the first few weeks I didn't want to get out of bed couldn't eat sleep nothing just cried honestly didn't care if I lived or died.but now as time goes by it has gotten a lol easier.

take things one day at a time and be kind to yourself this is not your fault nothing can take this pain away but time makes it more tolerable it is just so unfair isn't it I am here if you ever need to talk you can pm me I'm usually on here all the time hugs xoxoxo

Lacie

 

[honeybunch2k7]

You and baby Willow are in my thoughts.

 

[Emmasmom2]

My heart goes out to you. I lost my baby girl 4 weeks ago and I am still having hard time accepting it. I don't cry every minute like those first few days after her death but my grief has metamorphed from being raw and fresh into deep, gnawing and mind-numbing. I know nothing will ever replace Willow but I can totally relate to your desire for a baby. I am terrified of being pregnant though; I used to enjoy every second of it (Emma was my 4th child) and now I feel sheer terror at the very thought. I obviously need to work through my feelings as I know that having another baby is the only way out of this black hole.