lozzy21
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OMG I forgot to tell you what some one at work said to me on tuesday!
All the clients were still in bed so we were sat around the table having a cuppa and some breckie and since it was all female's on shift the convo shifted to contraception. I stated that i wasent using anything but comdom's as a protest as I want a baby now but OH dosent so because hes the one that wants to wait he can buy and use the comdoms. Most of them laughed and said nice one but one of the nurses who is 25 but think she knows everything said i was being selfish and isrisponsable for not using the pill because HE dosent want oneand that if i fell pregnant i would BE BRINGING AN UNLOVED CHILD INTO THE WORLD I informed her that we were living together in a stable relationship and financialy could afford a baby and the only reason he dosent want one yet if for purely selfish reasons as he dosent want go have to give up on holidays and night's out, NOT THAT WE HAVE A LOT TO BEGIN WITH!! He would love our baby, planned or not. I also informed her that i hadent asked for any one's oppinion and dont give a flying fuck what she or anyone else thinks.
She quickly appologised and went and hid in the office. Cheeky cow.
All the clients were still in bed so we were sat around the table having a cuppa and some breckie and since it was all female's on shift the convo shifted to contraception. I stated that i wasent using anything but comdom's as a protest as I want a baby now but OH dosent so because hes the one that wants to wait he can buy and use the comdoms. Most of them laughed and said nice one but one of the nurses who is 25 but think she knows everything said i was being selfish and isrisponsable for not using the pill because HE dosent want oneand that if i fell pregnant i would BE BRINGING AN UNLOVED CHILD INTO THE WORLD I informed her that we were living together in a stable relationship and financialy could afford a baby and the only reason he dosent want one yet if for purely selfish reasons as he dosent want go have to give up on holidays and night's out, NOT THAT WE HAVE A LOT TO BEGIN WITH!! He would love our baby, planned or not. I also informed her that i hadent asked for any one's oppinion and dont give a flying fuck what she or anyone else thinks.
She quickly appologised and went and hid in the office. Cheeky cow.