Morning (again) ladies,
Choc

your OH sounds a bit of a prat at times hunny, i'd confront him straight off. Ask if he really does want commitment to you & your daughter or if he would rather be involved with his ex. It won't be an easy discussion but at least you will know & can hopefully get it sorted once & for all & move on whichever way it goes. Call me if you need a friend hun
Fish&Chips - thanks for the early labour signs post, very informative hun. Sets my mind at rest about my bowels too (sorry if TMI). I only said to DH yesterday 'i thought pregnancy was supposed to make you constipated, i've gone from being an every couple of days person to a 3 times a day no problem person' his respone..........'i've noticed'
NurseKel - i don't get any pains but it wakes Tufty up (he/she loves it) and i get a numb ass after a while lol. DH hates it as it's all he can hear when he's trying to watch TV/play on his PS3 directly below me
Elmaxie - i'd call & maybe let your GP know about your chest pains hun, i was severely told off for not reporting my palpitations to mine (despite letting my midwife know) & he sent me straight up to the hospital for an ecg. We think it was all due to the fluid overload but it's better to be safe hun & look after yourselves eh

. As for the baby related problems, leave your midwives a message & let them get back to you (it is their jobs afterall - i know i'd rather my patients contact me than not) the ball is then in their court isn't it
I had a strange urge to wash the moses basket blankets yesterday so i washed them overnight & i'm just keeping an eye on the impending rain so i can do my garden dash routine

i just thought - god if Tufty comes quickly the poor mite will have no where to sleep in the living room

how stoopid eh!
I was having a lovely lie in this morning but then i felt wet down below so i decided to get up & put a pad on, i didn't feel overly wet (no patches in the bed or anything) but there was definately fluid down there & on my legs if that makes any sense? I've had no more contractions since the ine int he night (to my knowledge) just weird sensations. My only concern is that most hypnobirth women report they didn't identify early labour & by the time they were mildly concerned & go into hospital they are about 7-9cms dilated eeeek. One lady a few weeks ago at my local hospital was told there was no way she was in established labour as she was so relaxed, when she insisted on an internal before being sent home it turned out she was 9cm & ready for baby to come out argh! I'll have that kinda labour i think
HHmmmm - i'm going to rescue my washing........i don't trust the look of that sky & it's been out since 7am! Can always air it in the airing cupboard to finish it off
