F&C
Its so hard to balance things when you have a baby. I go through the same thing just 'mummy melt downs' i call them, we all have them when we cant do everything. Men can just carry on their lives as they have been doing where ours have changed forever, they dont understand. It does just sound like he's meaning well but just not getting it.
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yay me too, i get Mummy meltdowns!! Exactly as you describe when everything is not done i go mad, i start going on about how the house looks like a pigsty, how i am the only one that does anything, does no one else see the mess? look at it!!!! is your bedroom tidy? and it goes on, the children sense a mummy meltdown and disappear to their rooms!
Blob, wow identical, like my girls, i think mine are twins born 2 years apart! Mine have totally different personalities though, like chalk and cheese in that respect. xx
Odd pics, love them, have lots because i prefer them to reflect on, i took some of Sophie crying when she was a baby because she spent most of her time crying!
How annoying i cant upload the pic i wanted to, ah well, really have not itme to mess with it!
Rosie's cough is still going, bless her, she try's to suck her thumb and it slips too far in her mouth and she chokes then coughs, poor baby it sounds horrible, but she seems quite happy in herself.
F&C, I was also going to say you cold look at getting feeds to last longer to get longer breaks between, Rosie will really mess about on the boob so i have to keep offering til she eventually takes it and feeds when is good for me, like if we are going out i will feed to give me a few hours out first b4 i need to feed. (sat in the barbers feeding yesterday while dh had his haircut, i said at first, i cant feed in here, you will get a wonky haircut!!)
You could try offering water or a dummy between feeds, or just try to keep feeding til he looks really full! Offer both boobs as long as he can take without being sick.
By offering water between feeds he will see he won't always get milk as he may just be demanding you because he is thirsty not hungry, or wants comfort. (thus the dummy) My last baby was like this, she just wanted to be close so fed til she was sick, a dummy cured it.
Generally breast fed babies can demand more, as we can't upgrade to hungry baby milk!
Rosie goes through days she demands constantly and others she hardly seems to feed, it has taken a calm baby and my 5th breast fed baby to seem to get it 'right' and i think that it is far more down to her and the fact she is so easy going!
I am happy feeding and still not thinking about weaning, she is content and i know what mess lies before us with the weaning!! From 4 months as soon as she starts looking interested in food i will introduce her to a few different flavours, but if she doesnt look interested i will just leave it til she does.
Well off to look at other stuff now, lots of sales starting online! But a big pile of ironing calls me louder! Dh in bed so very ill with a man cold, the same cold as the girls have but he is in bed! I have taken him a lemsip!
Back later, xxxxxxxxxx