septembryos baby area (09 babies)

[babytots]

hi ladies well i'm back from the day unit. still in pain (even though they gave me co-codamol). checked babys heartbeat all fine though she kept wriggling away,then waited for the doctor to come and she did an examination cervix closed thank god. got given some co-codamol and was told the pains are properly doing too much i.e picking up the girls,housework etc and shouldnt be nothing to worry about. was told to rest up. yeah like i can do that when my house is a tip and my girls are being little monsters!

anyways thanks for thinking of me so relieved baby is ok but these pains are really pestering me! right got to go keep my eye on the pasta so it doesnt stick to the pan (my usual trick when on here and i'm cooking pasta lmao!).

k477uk have lovely time on hols! see you in a weeks time.

rachy- yay for feeling baby move! the first movements can feel like gas bubbles.

marg- hope your sil has her baby really soon sounds like things are heading in the right direction.

ooo and one last thing i forgotten the smell of hospital and when i was sat waiting for the doc i got all excited about giving birth again. my maternity hospital has such a lovely smell to it lmao! x

 

[10thSept]

k477Uuk, have a great time, going anywhere nice?
firegal, that is a bummer - maybe you can get it for him but use it after the baby is born?
So he gets the voucher or whatever on his bday, but you take advantage of it after?
otherwise, I'm stumped!! sorry!!
re movement, I've never a clue if it's baby or something else, I just tell myself it's baby as it makes me feel good!!!!

 

[firegal]

good to see you back babytots!

10thSept, I was thinking that but then I realised I may as well just save it for another year seeing as we probably wouldn't be using it until closer to his next birthday anyway.... so it's back to the drawing board! he's really hard to buy for too, he never really wants anything!

 

[Silas]

babytots - I'm glad that you and the babs are ok

Firegal - what a bummer! Would he like a day at Silverstone in instead?
Also, with the baby kicks thing, When I described to the midwife that I felt 'popcorn popping' just below my belly button, she said that thats the baby kicking. but when I saw the doctor a few days ago because I hadn't felt the kicks for a week, she suggested starting a kick chart. I know its early but it put my mind at rest by keeping a record...

 

[10thSept]

babytots, so glad all is ok
ooh, silas, good idea for firegal's OH!!!!

 

[babiiblu]

Oh ladies...the whole FB thing cause such a mess last night. i am still realing from the headache from all the tears. My brother got mad at me and told me not to talk to him til I was sane and rational...all I did was ask him NOT to poke fun of me in such a public place. needless to say he deleted the comment.
all cause problems with the hubby and upset dd...had to get out of the house and go talk to my "mom"(a very dear lady who i've grown very close to since my own mom passed). All this at 10:30pm!
hope today is better.

 

[firegal]

I can't actually decide if he'd like that you know..... he LOVES his football, but in lots of other ways he's not actually that blokey if you know what I mean! I might sound him out about it in a subtle way though, thanks for the suggestion

I'm off to yoga now anyway - chat to you lovely ladies tomorrow!

 

[firegal]

Oh ladies...the whole FB thing cause such a mess last night. i am still realing from the headache from all the tears. My brother got mad at me and told me not to talk to him til I was sane and rational...all I did was ask him NOT to poke fun of me in such a public place. needless to say he deleted the comment.
all cause problems with the hubby and upset dd...had to get out of the house and go talk to my "mom"(a very dear lady who i've grown very close to since my own mom passed). All this at 10:30pm!
hope today is better.

Aw hun, I hope you have a MUCH better day today. Families!!!!!

 

[babiiblu]

Babiblu and 10thSept - it's not right that people think they can say what they want about your bodies! I like Star-dust's idea of asking them what they're excuse for being fat is!

Unfortunately I can't ask my bro that....he is a body builder so there is not fat to ask about. (

 

[10thSept]

oh hun, you poor thing, i'm so sorry.
As i said, i totally understand about insensitive family and as much as people say don't let it get to you, it's so so hard not to lose it with family.
But you were totally in the right - it's completely rational to say he shouldn't post the comment in a public place - those comments aren't ok in private let alone in public.
I'm so sorry, but I'm sure our blasted hormones are to blame for feeling so much more overwhelmed than normal.
Try to focus on happy stuff - like the miracle growing inside you, that you're nourishing with your healthy body.
xx

 

[Siyren]

heya girls!
hugs to babiiblu, and to babytots- glad bub is ok honey and cervix is closed

 

[babiiblu]

Thanks..all of you. I suppose as a man he woldn't understand the horomone thing. Although he IS a health/pe teacher...he OUGHT to know. Guess you really don't til you've experienced it. He doesn't understand the grieving over a miscarriage either...so frustrating.
I am trying to be perkier, but hubby and I have unresolved business now as the whole mess brought back all the crap that I thought was behind us with the affair and all. After all, he stayed with me and I'm giving him another child. Oh well...hopefully he'll be talkative when he gets home this evening...it's only a lil after noon here so i have like 4 hours to think about it! Guess I'll be checking in here more than usualy to get some of that insanity from you all!

 

[Siyren]

we're very very good at providing the insanity!!!

 

[babytots]

ok ladies can you give me your thoughts on this email that i am sending to babybond about my scan. i am rubbish at writing things so if anyone can make changes to make it sound more proffesional i would really appreciate it.

To whom it may concern,

I had a gender scan at Babybond Leeds on the 5th April and felt let down by the service I received.

The sonographer who scanned me seemed to rush the scan and I felt she didnt take enough time looking at the sex of my baby.I saw more of my babys head and body then I did of the gender.

The baby was also in an awkward position so she couldn't get the best view and instead of asking me to go for a walk, which it states on your website they do if baby isnt in an ideal position, she just went back to scanning my babys profile for a few minutes then back to the sex. Baby was still in a awkward position so the view of the gender wasnt very clear.

When the sonographer was looking at the sex of the baby she seemed unsure of the sex and asked her colleague her thoughts who also seemed unsure and she told me she thought it was a girl but I could tell by her face she really was unsure what she thought. My friend who came along with me noticed this too. I should of asked at the time how sure she was but was caught up in seeing my baby and it slipped my mind.

I was given a photo of my babys sex which has confused me.Not only is it very blurry and enlarged it looks nothing like what my youngest daughters gender scan picture did and its clear on hers that shes a girl. on my unborn babies picture there appears to be a white area sticking out which makes me wonder if she got it wrong and it could possibly be a boy.

All in all I feel my experience at Babybond was a bad one. It felt like I was having a scan with the nhs not in a private facility. I feel like I can't trust the sonographers opinion on the sex and am confident she didnt know for sure herself.

I was recommended babybond by a friend after she had positive experiences with her pregnancies but after using them myself i wouldnt recommend them to any of my pregnant friends.

I now wish I had taken my custom elsewhere as I'm sure i would of got a better service. I am quite upset over all of this even more so as a very kind friend offered to take me to the scan since I live in East Yorkshire and feel like her time and petrol was wasted.

Thank you for taking your time in reading this and i hope you take my complaint seriously.

does that sound ok? x

 

[Siyren]

i think that sounds good honey.
x

 

[Siyren]

oj jsut thought id add, i had my bloods done last wed, and they've let me know that i need to go on iron tablets.
assuming this means im anaemic?
but atleast now i will have more energy.
wahay

 

[babytots]

thanks hun going to send it now hope they reply.

yes it does mean your anemic hunni fingers crossed you get your energy back. i got really anemic after my last miscarriage to the point where i couldnt get up with my girls in the morning after being on tablets for 2 months i felt so much better. then i got pg lmao and my energy has depleted again but thankfully iron levels are so far so good! x

 

[pinkbow]

hey babytots, that sounds really good and to the point informative, tbh its as if some1 professional worte that for u.....so GO YOU!!! hehe i hope they take it seriously as bein private u expect service to a high standard...as ur bloody paying for it lol

i hope they offer u another free of service, it actually says that on their website....

my scan is with them on sat....OH NOOOO!!!!

 

[Siyren]

btw didd anyone else notice we're on page 200?

 

[babytots]

aww am sure you will have a better experience with them which one you going too? i'm sure mine was just a one off!

it really suprised me tbh the way she was with me. i had a gender scan with my youngest with a different company (though they sadly dont do gender scans til after 20 weeks) and the woman there was fab. took her time showing me everything then when my dd had her legs crossed she told me to have a sugary drink to try and get her to move. she was so patient what was meant to be a 15 min scan ended up being a 45 min one as my daughter really didnt want me to know the sex lol and she even gave me a sneaky peek of her in 4d couldnt of asked for a better scan there!

babybond were useless and seemed so unproffesional. x