thanks hun, will have to try it. if not foundation all the way!
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i am soooooo annoyed at kids school! they have lied about me to social services!!! back in nove last year i rang social services asking for help with my eldest, it took them until jan this yr to contact me. they did an assessment at home and asked if they could contact the school i said yes! (baring in mind son is under hospital for behavioural issues, mutliple personality and is "border adhd/autism - we have this on hospital letters! he also goes very hyper on red food and drinks) anyyway the school told SS that "they are concerned for sons welfare as i am always making allegations that he has illness's and he has loads of time off school with sickness bugs etc which they think i am making up! his so-called illness' include an allergy to red foods and drinks, adhd, autism and child .
all of what they are accusing me of making up are on hospital letters from consultant that son is showing signs of. i have done the right thing and informed the school after every hospital meeting. and i have rung them when he has had sickness bugs and stuff and not sent him in and i am now being accused f making it all up!
next time he is being really sick and has the s***s i will send him to school and they can bloody deal with it not me!!!
OH wants me to go down the school with hospital letters and make them withdraw what they have said, but if i go down there i'm likely toget arrested for punching someone for lieing about me!!!
AND to top it off, SS cant help me as the kids are not at risk, me and OH are not druggies/alcoholics or abusive and therefore we have got to cope with sons challenging behaviour and/or go and see anoth consultant to try and get son diagnosed officially.
i reallly want to scream.