Shaking off the bad ju-ju - 3DPO, late O ...hey! ho!

[Wish2BMom]

malinko - that's EXACTLY how I'm feeling!! I would much rather go to the bathroom 50x, which I'm definitely averaging right now, than test once and see a BFN!! You hit that nail on the head!
Though I guess it's a fairly safe bet at 13dpo. But again, second-guessing myself on O date and all that jazz. But I'm VERY happy that the spotting seems to have stopped!

just so you know, if I HAPPEN to be - I had drinks on 2, 3, 5, 6 and 7dpo (gawd that sounds like a lot but 3dpo was by far the most at my company meeting - the others were a glass of wine here or there) but nothing since and IF things are going on and implantation happened 10dpo, then I believe I'm fine. We actually went out to dinner last night b/c we lost power and couldn't cook and I just had water, juuuuust in case!

Go on with your bad, relaxed self and enjoy!! it WILL happen for ALL of us!!! I'm very jealous of your extra long weekend as I stare at my data file I'm putting together!

 

[Wish2BMom]

THANKS!!! yeah, they aren't crazy temps by any means, definitely not triphasic but I know not everyone is. I actually tried to lookup what they 'should' be or how far from normal or whatever. I think that's a futile search. But I do think I read awhile ago that .4 and more above your normal range is good!

that's what's killing me about this whole thing - my 'signs' are kinda meh - no super crazy temps, spotting but no bleeding, nothing else of note. DAMMIT body, just give me a sign so I KNOW when I test, it'll just be confirming what I already know!

 

[littlegirl87]

You girls are both killing me!
Wish my thought is this. Your LP's are normally 9, 10, or 11 days....NEVER 13...and you had cramps, with spotting, and its now gone. Your temp is up as far as im concerned...i don't expect mine to be drastically high when my time comes...that is too easy and NOTHING in my life ever comes that easy! I think (and hope and pray) that you will get your and im TICKLED PINK for you!

malinko...I am beyond jealous that you are off having fun and not at work! lol I would kill for a vacation but its hard for me to even get 1 day off in the summer as this tends to be my busiest time of year. POOP lol

I also am not having any signs really other than i have had a few dizzy spells (non low blood sugar related) and that isn't really normal for me. I did have one when i ovulated which I KNOW was when i ovulated just because of that spell. Then last night i had some and then this morning i have had a few. its weird, but who knows what i could be from. I am thinking 7DPO is too early for anything anyway so perhaps i am just congested and dizzy from allergies or something.

hope you are both having a lovely day! I am at work and wishing i was home lol but hey at least its FRIDAY! Hopefully i will find lots to do this weekend to keep me busy and that will get me through until Monday and ill be 10 DPO then...the wait will be a lot less at that point! yippee!

and

 

[littlegirl87]

I am SO FREAKING GROSSED OUT right now that I could not possibly discuss this with anyone else but the two of you, but ok the last 4 days ish i have had like LOADS of creamy cm. Now normally I will notice a tiny bit of CM in my panties or something maybe right before O or right before AF, but i am talking since Tuesday i will go to the bathroom and have a spot of creamy cm in my panties that makes me not even want to pull them back up. It is so disgusting. I seriously don't know what to do? I have never experienced anything like this before. this is also going to be TMI but i know its not a yeast infection...no itching, no pain, no burning...just this like white-ish slippery shiney looking gunk in my panties and its disgusting

i am so embarrassed about it. I have been like hiding my panties in the laundry until the next morning in hopes that DH doesn't see it! that is how bad! what can i do???????

SOOOOOOOO sorry as i know this is completely disgusting but i am completely disgusted (which never happens) i feel so gross EWWWWW

 

[littlegirl87]

Wish you are going to have to come back soon and update me.....Im like having a panic attack over here waiting to find out what you find out!

FX

 

[Wish2BMom]

WOAHHHHHHHHHH!!! Creamy CM is GOOD!! And your dizzy spells might be too! 7dpo is a perfectly fine day to be implanting, it's supposed to happen between 6-12!! I hear ya, though - sometimes it's so abundant, I have to take a piece of TP and wipe my panties off! GAG!

No real updates here - checked CP in the shower again and it's still high. Only got a tiny little spot of brown on the tip of my finger. I had a bit on TP after that, probably b/c I was poking around. But nothing anywhere else. That's what weird too - not even any CM. Though I read that early preg CM may be like it is right before AF - small amount and sticky. If I have anything, that's what I have.

So Monday is 10dpo for you - when is AF usually do? EEEE!! I can't wait for you girls to come back from the weekend and be where I am!

yeah, I haven't been able to come on quite as much today b/c my goal is not to work ANOTHER night until 9:30/10 on these files!! they need to get out the door! BUT, we just had a meeting and succumbed to the fact that we aren't getting them all out today, so that means this chick isn't working late tonight. Oh how I would love a glass of wine after my test - either result!!

I'll definitely keep you girls updated!

 

[littlegirl87]

Sounds fantastic! So do you get this creamy cm every month??

I am just totally grossed out by my own body lol. Wow you are 13 DPO and not even a sign of AF or spotting and your cervix is still high!

if you don't get a ill be in total shock...seriously...

PLEASE KEEP ME POSTED!!! Ill be checking in regularly!

in your tummy alright!

oh yes and the is due Thursday for me....*sigh* i want to hope that she wont show but then that would be a little too dangerous for me so im counting on her being here right on time

FX

 

[Wish2BMom]

Uggghhhh spotting worse. I'll keep u updated.

 

[littlegirl87]

Oh no....no no no no no no....please tell me that its not happening. I have been so freaking excited for you all day...NO

PLEASE have a good update for me next time you post....

FX
prayers for GL

 

[Wish2BMom]

Thank you, friend - BFN.
Pretty sure the witch is going to be here tomorrow. I'll keep you posted though.

Re: creamy CM & me - no, I don't usually get that much after O, unless it's right after a run. Then it's definitely gross!!

&

 

[malinko]

Stupid witch...sorry wish

 

[Wish2BMom]

Thanks, m. You were right to warn me. I can't believe I fell for it, I feel kinda gullible, though I know that's silly bc no one was playing a trick on me! Ugh.
So yes, the witch is in full force now.
I hope you ladies have great weekends and have lots of fun relaxation time. Monday brings us closer to your possible BFPs!!

 

[littlegirl87]

Oh wish I am soon terribly sorry! I feel like a terrible friend because I was so freaking excited for you and I helped you believe and I'm so sorry. I promise I totally 110% know how it feels to think it's finally happening for you and the she shows. I wish I could give you a real hug right now!!! I'm feeling for you though girl

Go to that party and enjoy a whole bottle of wine you absolutely freaking deserve it!

Keep your head up and stay strong! My heart hurts for you love but one of these days very soon it's going to happen for real!!!

Lots of love and your way!!

 

[Wish2BMom]

You are so NOT a terrible friend b/c you believed!! stop that nonsense right now!

How is everyone feeling today???

malinko - I have no idea what to make of your temps! you must feel nuts. Are you feeling anything?
little - your temps look good! any niggles for you?

afm - I've had the weirdest cycle ever. Definitely started Saturday, definitely flowed until yesterday afternoon around 3, then I've basically stopped. I AT LEAST have 3 solid days, usually 4, not a day and a half! I would totally chalk it up to having spotted for 4 days beforehand, but that wasn't enough spotting to make up for the flow I usually have. I'm calling the docs today to set up my appts, I guess I can mention it.

all in all - still had a great weekend. Much too short, but filled with friends and festivities. I hope you all did too - I thought of you both.
thank you for the support, as always. You are two of the best!

 

[malinko]

Good morning girls!

Wish - I don't ever try to make anything out of my charts anymore I'm guessing af will be here tomorrow or Wednesday though. The past few months I have had abnormally light periods as well. I had terrible cramps and a heavy flow before going on bc. That helped with the cramps, but still had them some. The first and second days were the worst and I lived on 800mg ibuprofen. I had a couple of days of a heavy flow and then a few days of a lighter type flow. Total of 5 to 6 days probably. Since going off bc (a few months after actually) I have some cramps but nothing like I used to and don't have a flow near like what I used to either. Nothing too heavy (at least the last few months) and nothing that lasts very long. I'll be anxious to see if you doctor says anything about that. I've decided to relax the next month or two and then think about going on to a specialist now that my doctor is gone.

Little - - how are you feeling?

We had a great weekend. Got home yesterday and I am exhausted. Having another long weekend this coming weekend as we have some family flying in on Thursday. Looking forward to another short week

How are both of your gardens/flowers doing???? I didn't plant a garden, but did plant some flowers that are doing great! My hanging baskets on the other hand are not doing very well

Okay, guess I should get busy this morning! Talk to you girls soon!

 

[Wish2BMom]

hahaha - I stumped the doc! I told her everything that has happened since last Tuesday and she goes, "...well I'm confused by this!! let me call Dr XX and see what she thinks. I'd hate to have you come in for bloodwork and have it not be valid or have to do it all over again." So I don't really know what that means, but she's checking to see what next steps are. Unfortunately, b/c AF started on a Saturday, I wasn't able to call the first day of AF and get things started. So I'm not sure if that has anything to do with things - she said 'if it's cd3 or 4, I don't think that makes a difference'. So, more to come...

yeah, my cycles are usually M, H, M, L, L and then spotting 2 days later. I told her I'm not really complaining that it's already over, but just really confused overall. Esp with being a few days late last week. But told her I did take a test and it was BFN, soooo....who knows. Ahhhh the human body.

The garden is doing great, actually!! the Brussels sprout plants are blooming nicely and the tomato plants are starting to climb! I planted the cucumbers in a different section of the garden this year to see if they would do better but they are still pretty underwhelming. We'll see, maybe they are late bloomers!
Most of my flowers are doing well - there's one plant in one of the planters out front that's not doing well, but there's another one in that planter taking over, so it still looks nice! The hanging ones NEVER do well for me! I don't know how businesses that have them hanging outside and flourishing do it!!

 

[Wish2BMom]

alright....where are you little??? I hope everything is ok!!!

 

[malinko]

Exactly little....where are you?!?! I hope everything is okay with you too and hoping that you are just off from work and relaxing Or...its just a crazy day at work for you. Come back to us

 

[malinko]

Little???? We miss you!!!!

 

[Wish2BMom]

I miss our bundle of happiness and giddiness!!